Reflective Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 My last boyfriend did this too! After we got to know each other, he kept poking or tugging on my nose. i wasn't annoyed just confuse because most guys just like to touch the small of my back or poke me a lot or touch my arms but m nose? what on earth? My Friends boyfriend who I work with, is also doing the same now! I would never ever ever do anythig with him. he's a really attractive guy, but I would never do anythig with him i respect him and my friend very much besides we are all really chill with each other. I work at a deli part time and I'm the only young girl there, I work with a lot of guys.. most 19-25 year olds and they keep teasing me again about my height but i sometimes laugh about it.. it gets annoying because it's like they think because I'm small I can't work as fast but I do... I get more work done then they do lol! but.. now they keep touching my nose.. like poking it or tugging it, it's so weird! I'll walk by and help them out and than either or tug or poke my nose, I don't get it lol this happens too often so what's that about... Link to comment
FathomFear Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Are you referring to the gesture of taking someone's nose between the thumb and index finger and squeezing it a bit? That's typically done by adults to little kids. I suspect it's just a continuation of them regarding you as really small or just a "squirt". It's not sexual. Still, if it bothers you I would let them know. It's a workplace environment and they should be professional. Link to comment
Reflective Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 Are you referring to the gesture of taking someone's nose between the thumb and index finger and squeezing it a bit? That's typically done by adults to little kids. I suspect it's just a continuation of them regarding you as really small or just a "squirt". It's not sexual. Still, if it bothers you I would let them know. It's a workplace environment and they should be professional. They do that too or they poke it.. it usually happens unexpectedly or whenever I'm upset and venting or just having a good time with the guys either of them will just tug it poke my nose and it really catches men off guard Link to comment
ForumGuy Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 You must have a really cute and irresistible nose!! I can honestly say that urge has never crossed my mind with anyone! Link to comment
FathomFear Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 They do that too or they poke it.. it usually happens unexpectedly or whenever I'm upset and venting or just having a good time with the guys either of them will just tug it poke my nose and it really catches men off guard It seems clear, then, that this is just another form of the "They're teasing me because I'm short" thing. The only nose I've ever touched in such a manner is my four year old neice's. Link to comment
Reflective Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 It seems clear, then, that this is just another form of the "They're teasing me because I'm short" thing. The only nose I've ever touched in such a manner is my four year old neice's. So they are making fun of my nose now too? Link to comment
FathomFear Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 So they are making fun of my nose now too? No--I'm not quite sure you're following. Playing with someone's nose is typically something adults do to youngsters. Considering that you are regularly teased for being very short, this form of teasing falls into that. They see you as short and like a little kid, so they're doing things adults typically do to little kids. I'm sure your nose is perfectly fine. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 That's really odd. Unless it was a relative (like a grandpa- who always still sees you as a "kid") or a lover I would not want people touching my nose. I'd find it condescending- especially at work. I also wouldn't want people's germy hands near my face like that in general. I think you need to be assertive and simply say "Don't touch my nose" Link to comment
petite Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Do you have a small nose? (no pun) Link to comment
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