Saures Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Heres a bit of back light, I've been with 6 guys before him, and I have been with him for just over 7 months. I have never had an orgasm.... I was very tolerable with him at the beginning of our relationship, i.e he was very shy about his penis and always insisted he touches me rather than the other way round, which I tolerated, soon enough he got over his fear and we began to do foreplay, with his low sex-drive, his lack of turn ons, and his odd loss of erections, we didn't have sex until 3 months into the relationship. It bothered me a bit. So we started having sex... I don't orgasm and because of this, I never "finish". Where as he does... A classic example of him being selfish is, we got in from a long day and started having a "team fap" as we like to call it, use your imaginations, he then started saying "can i put it in you yet" "i want to have sex" I refused and he just stopped and said "i've lost motivation now" "its not fair you can't start me up like that and not finish". I of course got very mad at this, I said its unfair because I didn't want sex, and all I wanted was to just be touched in that way and he just asked for sex. He then told me "you should be happy with what you have". I wasn't having sex and I was fine, he was the one asking for something he wasn't getting and as soon as I told him "not now" "later" "no", he just loses all motivation... I know maybe ti was a bit obscene this whole post, but yeah... Is he being selfish? Am I just holding back because I'm not being "fulfilled" as some would say? Link to comment
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