SilverFactory Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 After being so frustrated with Online Dating I was wondering how else I could meet women. Last Friday my friend (he is Chinese) said he is going to an Asian-American Speed Dating event and asked if I wanted to join him. I thought it will be a good idea and went along with him. During the event I noticed that I was the only non-Chinese guy. Everybody there were Chinese.. But I still spoke to the women and kept marking on my sheet the ones that I found interesting. On Monday the organizers emailed me the results of the Speed Dating event and to my surprise one girl had chosen me. It was a mutual match. She was Chinese American. I felt happy and then emailed her and she responded back. We kept emailing back and forth around 5 to 6 times. Then she asked me if I had any plans for the long weekend and I said I had plans to travel but that did not pan out. I also asked her if she had any plans. She sent me this response: "I do, but not travel plans. Those don't happen til closer to end of the yr. So I must save up. Sigh Sorry to hear your plans didn't pan out. Guess you better have a backup plan now" and I sent this reply: "aww.. that's sweet of you. Thanks X I have just postponed the trip for now.. will be going some time later this year. I would like to come to the city during the weekend and take you out for a cup of coffee. Would you like to meet?" and that was it. I did not hear back from her after that I don't know if I did something wrong.. can some one please offer some insight? I am feeling very down. Link to comment
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