ileana87 Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 My husband of 9 months has been cheating the WHOLE time, since even before we got married, he proposed and come to find out, 2 weeks after proposing he was seeing someone else. He's always been a cheater, and silly me, thought he'd change. Now, I'm the mother of a 5 month old (who was born 4 months prematurely which I believe was due to the stress of receiving pictures from another woman of her straddled over my husband). I'm not upset over the divorce, or the split, BUT I am scared to venture out into the unknown. There was no way for me to foresee the events of my youngest son being born so early and now needing so much attention that I can't work because his medical condition doesn't allow him to be put in daycare. So now, what do I do? I went to the Social Security office today to see what services I could apply for, so I could maybe get back on my feet so I could leave him. Um yeah, not happening, since I still live with him, even if he physically isn't buying me anything or feeding me, his income does affect whether or not I can apply for temporary assistance and what not. Yes, we still live together and No, I can't leave, because I have ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE TO GO, my father is if anything in a worse financial situation than I am and never knows where he's going to get the money for his next rent payment. And my mother lives in Puerto Rico and also can't financially help me. So does anyone have ANY idea what I can do, so I can get out of here?! My problem with living with him is that he completely takes advantage of the fact that I'm home with the kids all day, if he's going out, he doesn't ask, he just says, bye, I'm going out, and that's it!! I don't have such liberty to do that! I mentioned to him, and he said, if you want to go out, just ask. UM JUST ASK?!?! YOUUU don't ask!!! Oh man, don't even get me started. And also not to mention, he has control of ALLLLLL of the money, he pays the bills, but also uses $$ for him and then tells me there's no money for me to get whatever I may need and/or want. We're supposedly broke, but he isn't too broke to go out to dinner with his little . And yes, she's a , because she is VERY aware that he is married and with 2 children. Does anyone have ANYYYY advice?! PLEASE! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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