May7007 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I have been with my ex for close to four years. About a week ago I came home from work to find her not home. In the 3 years we have lived together this has never happened. At first I was worried and I kept calling her. She finally arrived home 45 mins later. She said she was at a bar with a girlfriend talking about our relationship and how she wasn't happy. Later that night she breaksndown and tells me that she was there with a guy friend. She promised that they were just friends and I believed her. The next night she came home very upset and apologized for breaking up with me. She said that she just freaked out and all the stress in her life had built up and she took it out on us. Then a week later I was sitting on our couch and her phone went off next to me and it was that same guy texting her "I miss you too babe" so I confronted her and she admitted that she was interested in this guy. She then proceeded to tell me she wanted a break. She said she needed space so I gave it to her. She didn't call.. So I couldn't wait any longer and emailed her and asked what she thought about us. She came over and told me that she wasn't in love with me and felt like she was missing out on her life and things were moving too fast.. Now she's going out everyday and talking to this new guy. She seems so happy. How??? I'm crushed and very lost. I knew in my heart that she was the one and now she's gone. When we talk she's like a whole new person? I want to wait around for her but I feel like that is stupid. I'm very depressed and she's having the time of her life... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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