SeekFortitude Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Answer: Who cares!!!! Move on!!!!!!!!! Next! Find the strength and FORTITUDE to carry on and move forward. Do not let others bring you down! Stay strong! You are better than this situation. Have confidence in yourself. You do not need your ex or anybody! Get the power back! This is what we should all be telling ourselves everyday. Our exes left us for a reason he/she things suited them. Its not our fault. Its no ones fault the relationship ended. Don't look for answers. Let go! Accept it and move onwards and upwards! Life is way too short and the world awaits us! Its been 2 months for me in NC and I feel stronger everyday. Do I miss her? Of course! Do I think about her? Everyday! BUT, the pain is easing each and everyday and I am becoming strong enough to eventually say " it!! This is really over and I should not spend anymore time on this." No contact is the only way to truly heal. There really is no other way until you are fully over it. Stay NO CONTACT. Disappear and heal. You will emerge from this much stronger. I know it, because I can feel it in myself. I feel stronger everyday and no one will take that away. I know its hard, but BE STRONG! You will make it and you will eventually wonder why you even gave him/her the satisfaction of even caring that much. AND a plug for ENA....this is probably one of the best websites out there with some truly caring and experienced people. Thank you to everyone for sharing your time, stories, journals, experience, and wisdom. I only wish I found this site earlier. Link to comment
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