pennyloafer2 Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 I talked things out with him, about the things that bugged me. We reached a compromise. He changed his dating profile to not single and I said it's fine if he keeps the lovey dovey photos up, since they are just memories. Link to comment
ToF Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 So are you exclusively dating each other? Link to comment
blackhawks1287 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 How does having a dating profile that says not single much of a compromise if you two are dating? Link to comment
pennyloafer2 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Share Posted August 31, 2011 So are you exclusively dating each other?Yes. We have been for quite some time. It's a compromise because to him it's not a big deal. He didn't use the profile for months and I know this is true. It just bugged me. So he changed it for me. Link to comment
ToF Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Why does he need a dating profile if he is exclusively dating you? I mean, sure, I guess it's cool that he changed his "status", but is that really enough? It sounds like you're accepting breadcrumbs. Link to comment
mhowe Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 He didn't use it for months, and it just bugged you? Do you not have more important things to focus on? Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Has he introduce you as his girlfriend yet to his friends or family? I recall he never did that before. Link to comment
pennyloafer2 Posted August 31, 2011 Author Share Posted August 31, 2011 Has he introduce you as his girlfriend yet to his friends or family? I recall he never did that before.Sort of, yes. Introduced me as the girl he's dating. Link to comment
Stay_home Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Sounds like a lot of games. Link to comment
pennyloafer2 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 He didn't use it for months, and it just bugged you? Do you not have more important things to focus on?It was a situation of actions being louder than words. The fact that he didn't just take it down bugged me and held me back from committing. Link to comment
ToF Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 But ... He didn't take it down, did he? Link to comment
pennyloafer2 Posted September 2, 2011 Author Share Posted September 2, 2011 He changed it to seeing someone. Link to comment
ToF Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Right. So he still has a dating profile. Which he could still use, no matter what his "status" is set to. Why does he need a dating profile if he is in a happy, monogamous and committed relationship with you? Again, it seems like you're accepting breadcrumbs. Link to comment
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