Gimpyrks Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Hey everyone. I have recently found out that I was being used all summer by a guy who I thought genuiley cared about me. But come to find out he never did, and he was still having a relationship with his "ex girlfriend". I am deeply hurt about this, and I am beating myself up over it because I knew better, or at least I do now. This prompted me to start this thread. I was one a while back but thought it couldn't hurt to start another one up. In this thread, list what you have learnt from dating. It can be anything from what you are looking for a person, to what you don't want in your SO, to red flags YOU SHOULD NOT IGNORE, to great dating ideas, etc. I'll start it out, and most of these are lessons from this summer. 1. Don't date or get involved with a guy who is living with his ex. Weather they are really broken up or not. 2. If the ex e mails you saying they are still in a relationship, but the person you are "dating" says other wise, believe the "ex" or at least really question the person you are dating. 3. Just because the person you are seeing has no problem meeting your family, doesn't mean he isn't using you. 4. (This is a personal preference) Really wait to have sex with someone, at least more then two months. 5. After 3 or 4 months of dating someone his or her real colors start to show. Well thats my beginning list. Please feel free to add Link to comment
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