MelodyH55 Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 I hooked up with this guy I met through mutual friends over NYE and continued to hook up for 2 months. He is a promoter on the side (he works a finance day job, started a club promoting company with his best friend to save up money to make their movie) so it was hard getting used to the fact that he always had girls around so things fizzled and we stopped hooking up. 2 months ago, he started texting me and we started hanging out again. We have a great time together but it is pretty casual. We have the same group of friends and are always at the same spots because he promotes the same 2 clubs on the weekends (although I try not to go to his clubs). We had dinner last week but don't normally make plans to hang out, we mainly get together when we see each other. He also wanted to plan a trip to the lake so we are going with some friends next week. He also is trying to travel with me when I go to Spain in November (said he has always wanted to go and is going to get his passport renewed..who knows if he will follow through). When I'm with him, it seems as though he is interested because we have so much fun together. Although, I know if he REALLY was interested, he would call me and make plans with me all the time. I like him but realize he may not be in the place for a relationship right now. My question is...if I wanted to take our relationship in that direction, what's the best route to go? Play hard to get? Or go the honesty route and make my feelings and intentions clear to him (and risk ruining our friendship and the fun we are having now)? I feel as if it may not be a bad route to just have fun and see where things go as long as I KNOW where I stand and what the situation is (but is that being way too easy? he may feel unchallenged and lose interest). He always has a million girls around and I know that is part of the problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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