iggy320 Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Ok so I've asked this girl out from work. She seemed like a "good girl", very shy etc. Turns out she's quite outgoing, but physically shy or something. We have a very good connection and her body language is telling me she likes me. Anyways we've been on a few dates, took her on my motorcycle, she really loved it. Gave her a flower on a third date, she said it was really sweet. As I was about to leave she was looking very shy (and goodbyes are difficult for us it seems) I said "can I kiss you" and she was acting even more shy and said "i'm sorry i'm really shy.. maybe it's because you are too, I'm normally not this shy" and I said not to worry about it. We are going for lunch on tuesday and she has texted me since then so I guess it wasn't a big deal that she declined my kiss? She seems to have concern for me, doesn't want me to get hurt on my motorcycle etc, we flirt sometimes too. We've committed to "dating" and we both know we're both interested, but aren't bf/gf. I'm 27 and she's 21. It all feels like we're in highschool or something. I really like her though. She also told me she isn't a "good girl" which kinda worries me.. because now I feel like I have to act like someone I'm not in order to attract her. Like.. instead of being "nice" I'll text her and say "hey sexy" and that sort of thing.. but she's liked the "nice" me up to this point! I don't know what to do. Should I take her to a movie and hold her hand? She seems really willing to go on dates but I initiate all of it. Is she just shy? Or am I going to get my heart broken? Link to comment
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