vanillacupcake Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 My ex and I split up 2 weeks ago. A lot has been going on in our lives, especially mine. Things became too messy too quickly, since we jumped right in and everything has been about bad timing. Since then, he has reached out to a friend of mine and spoke about it, how we aren't ready for something "right at this time". He tracked me down last night, came to my apartment, and we spent all night mostly together. Actually, as soon as I saw him, I ran for my apartment to avoid him and he definitely ran after me: twice. We finally spoke rationally about what has happened and decided we should be friends for right now, but he said "be friends and just see what happens". All clean slate. I agreed, saying we were never friends first and never were able to build that foundation. He said he wants to get to know me. How should I approach this? Does he actually see a future there when he says "see what happens"? He is fully aware I have feelings for him (as he does for me). Should I hold out hope? We never really fought about stuff, or had any kind of drama in our lives. We are pretty perfect for each other, its just such bad timing with so much, especially in my life, happening. But now since all of it is calming down, I think this would be a great place to start. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks. Link to comment
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