intotheself Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Do you believe in your intuition regarding reconciliation? In my previous three breakups, I think my intuition knew that they were not meant to be. That is, I was not mourning over the loss of the dumpers. Rather I was worrying what my future will be like. In retrospect, my concern was about how to move on and find a better, right person for me. I didn't have strong desire for reconciliation with the dumpers, although it was very painful at that time. I got over them eventually, and gladly realized that the relationships didn't work out eventually. This time, I am deeply sad over the loss of the man who left, as he has respectable qualities. And my intuition (false hope, you might say) tells me that this break up will not be final. So going through NC and getting myself back have not been extremely difficult. I went into NC right away, without being informed by any resources. It felt like a right direction for me to take and I am trying hard to resolve my own issue that made him leave. I am coping OK, to my surprise. What does your intuition tell you about the possibilities of reconciliation? Link to comment
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