nicoleh24 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 He has a temper, he has yelled at me, hit me, kicked me, slapped me, choked me, threatened to kill me...called me every name in the book-=during very heated arguments. It has not been a daily thing but it has happened a handful of times and it was while arguing...I go over in my head thinking "thats just how he is and I can have a big attitude towards him and can get loud during arguments"...justifying him putting his hands on me. To be honest with you, he has not put his hands on me during arguments recently, the physical abuse was about a few months ago. BUT the most recent fight a few weeks back he said horrible things to me (he told me to go ahead and kill myself after I confided in him a few days back that I was severely depressed, called me names, pathetic-loser-all the bad words in the book) and in a rage he kicked my car door in so hard that it left a dent and the handle broke off > he calmed down I basically told him that he cannot act that way ever again or we are done. I know I shouldnt have given him a 50th chance...but I did. Since then he is being extremely nice and holding his tongue when angry, etc....but Im afraid this is part of the "cycle"...or maybe he has changed finally. I dont know. But I want to break up with him. I cant seem to do it when he is being so NICE. I need someone to knock some sense into me. I am sure his behavior will get bad again...I seem to have blinded myself to the fact though.... Link to comment
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