megatron100 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 I honestly cannot believe I am writing this right now but I need some advice. If I ask any of my friends they will always know about this situation and question me on my relationship. I am a 25 year old male with a decent job. My girlfriend of almost 8 years is 22 and one year away from finishing school. For the past couple years she has kept complaining how much she hates where we live, where we are in life, and that she doesnt want to pursue the career path she is on. She is so close to graduating and doesnt want to quit, but it kills her that its not her passion. She also is not sure what she wants to do she just knows she wants to move from where we are now and pursue a new career. The problem this is having on me is it is making me realize that I am not the person that can giver her the life she wants or deserves. The stress she has, her depression, and not knowing what she wants all just makes it more clear that Im not right for her. If I really were the right person she would be happy with her life. But if I tell her I feel that way she would be even more devastated. But if I continue to support her and it doesnt lead to her having a happy life then what good is that? I really have no idea where to go from here. We both love each other more than anything, and I just want her to be happy. If me not being in her life is what she needs than I will do it, but I know she doesnt want to lose me and I really dont want to lose her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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