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What does this mean if hes on these applications?


Myownworldgirl

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So my bf and I have been together for 3 years going on 4. We are in a long distance relationship and he comes to see me like once every 3 months. We spoke about marriage and living together. We are both still young however we are 25..and are willing to wait and save up before we do get married. We both contact each other via facebook, a chat application on our mobiles, sms and phone. He always tells me how beautiful i am and that he loves me. Today i decided to go post like a love note on his (facebook) wall but when i went on his wall..i saw that he is using a dating site application called "girlsdateforfree". I immediately got upset and also have seen that he has been adding random girls on his facebook..the type who wears short dresses and look * * * * ty. I am however very shy, reserved and quiet..dress moderately. I havent confronted him about this because we are both at work..and the only way i can is by calling him or smsing. He works in a casino as a dealer and im a bit concerned that girls are coming there and asking him for his facebook..etc. I dont know and when hes with me no random girls call him or anything like that. So what should i do about this situation..is he looking for fun elsewhere?? do i end this relationship?

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If he was trying to hide the fact hes on a dating website, I highly doubt he would post it on his facebook for the world to see. It could be spam of some sort! Just speak to him later on the phone or skype if you feel you need to ask him about the girls, they could be girls he works with or friends? I think your jumping to a very harsh conclusion of you end the relationship over this.

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I agree with lonely.

If you're to shy to ask, be sneaky enough to snoop, and if you do find he's using it and adding girls, when you confront him, and he then uses "why were you snooping in the first place" you can bring up something about your secret lesbian split-personality or something...

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