m04greeneyes Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 It has been 16 days since my ex left me...and today is the 1st day & I can honestly say I have no desire to txt them Day one I was an absolute mess, had visions of driving into a wall, couldnt eat, couldnt sleep. The morning hours were always the worst for me but I woke up today with a silly txt from a friend and it made me smile right away. I can say understanding why your ex left and agreeing with it will make you move on so much faster. She didnt leave me for someone else, thank goodness, cuz idk where i would be right now. But we separated b/c of our own issues and werent strong enough to fight them together. But when you get to the point where you have no temptation to txt them man does it feel GREAT!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakeItCount Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 That's great to hear. I don't wanna rain on your parade, but be prepared for a rollercoaster. One day you'll feel amazing, the next like it's day 1 of the BU. Just keep reminding yourself of the fundamental reasons why it didn't work out and work through it. It'll take time, but as long as you treat yourself well, it gets better. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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