Matt_P Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I think i have some emotional/mental problems with letting go, but i'm not sure if it's just my opinion on these situations or if other people (you lovely lot) will agree... I broke up with a girl about 3/4 months ago. I was in quite an amazing relationship with her for about a year, but due to a few things such as location issues, we ended up breaking up. It was my decision and she agreed, but wasn't entirely happy about it. About a month later she got a job in the city we met in (i've moved back to my hometown just now). In the time we went out, she met a few of my friends. Now she's hanging out with one of my best male friends in the city. Apparently they go for drinks after work sometimes. I spoke to him about it and said it bothered me a bit. He said he could understand why but he wasn't going to stop doing it, just that he would not tell me about it if it bothered me. He also assured me it would always be platonic. So has she. But it's bothering me tonight to a ridiculous extent. I'm going to sleep pretty uncomfortably. Another of my male friends is actually living with an ex who i was with for 7 years. I'm still not over her at all, and that winds me up too but i'm getting over it as it's been almost a year now since they started living together. I'm currently with someone else. I sometimes think i shouldn't be. It started off as casual but has become more involved. I don't think i can do casual. Am i being irrational about all this? Is it okay for friends to spend time/live with your ex? I mean, surely this is going to bother most people, right? Link to comment
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