qtbutterfly68 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I started dating this guy back on February 26. It was love at first site and I was completely attracted to him. I was in the process of moving out of my roommate's house and he decided that maybe we should take a risk and move in together since we were both house hunting. On March 5 he got pulled over and taken to jail. I moved back in with my mom (an hour away from where I was living at the time). He had to spend 3 months in jail, and every week I would visit him...we would talk everyday...I wrote letters every other day and was completely devastated! During those 3 months I started hanging out with 2 other guys in the area. One promised to help me find a job in the area so I could get moved back up and out of my mom's house. What was suppose to be only professional became a friendship and we started hanging out regularly... as friends. I never mentioned this to my boyfriend bc I didn't want him to have that on his mind while he was in jail. The 2nd guy I hung out with during this time I actually went and spend the night at his house bc I didn't want to drive to back to my mothers (an hour away) I was tired.. I slept on the couch. Nothing happened. I never cheated..but I also never told him about anything!!! When he finally got out of jail we moved in together, and started to begin our life together... THEN he found out all about the guys I was hanging out with behind his back. He always wanted me to be honest and come clean but I never told him the truth. Yesterday, I confessed everything bc we were having a nasty bitter argument and I just wanted to come clean. He started calling me a "hoe" " * * * * * " "nasty * * * * " I know I did wrong by lying and hanging out with those guys but I never cheated..EVER!!!! Now he is kicking me out of the house. I have no where to go. I don't want to lose this guy. Even through all the names he's called me I still love him and want to work everything out!! I want to fix this bad relationship. I want to make things right! What do I do? I really need advice.. Link to comment
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