bigboy77 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Well i decided to delete her off facebook.. we were broken up for 4 months and she kept rejecting me everytime i asked her to hang out... It sucked seeing her profile so i deleted her.. (well.. got my friend to come over and delete her for me cause i was too scared to look at her page and do it myself lol).. Anyway after i did this she went and untagged all of our photos together.. i just don't get it.. she kept rejecting me for months and barely talked to me.. then when i finally make the last move to move on she retaliates like that. I don't get why she did it.. i figured she was over me since she showed no interest to even see me at all. I've pretty much moved on myself.. still have some scars but for the most part im good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donpeel83 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Mate, my ex did the same. All the photos of us together, she untaged. I then stupidly liked a comment of hers on one photo and she went and deleted any comment she made on any of the photos of the two if us. She's currently sat on my blocked list and I intend on keeping her there for the next 12 months at least, if not ever. As to why they do it, could be a vast multitude of reasons. Firstly, maybe they are still cut up and the reason she rejected a chance to see you was because she was trying to heal. The deletion or untagging is her way of simply trying to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dabbledave Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 You're moving on, she's moving on ... let it be. Look forward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benville Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I can top that for confusing behaviour. On the day we broke up/she left me, she actually finally uploaded all the photos of the two of us that had been taken in previous months but never put online, then tagged us together. So we fought, we talked, we broke up, THEN she uploads photos of the two of us together and tags us both in them. Never try and figure out an ex's behaviour, just focus on your own Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hausser Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Wow that is weird. You're right though, no point super analysing, if they cared that much they'd be with you, that's the way I look at it, everything else is just blurb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
learning2relax Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Facebook....ugh. Glad I deactivated my account! No desire whatsoever to reactivate it. There is something to be said about staying off the grid! Friending/unfriending, tagging/untagging, etc....... All stuff that is meaningless that just plays with your head when going through anything relationship related. People just use it as another weapon in the game of love. Just as there was a time before the internet and cell phones and text messages, there was a time when there wasn't facebook! I can remember when a boy wanted to get a hold of you, he had to call your parents house and hope that you were home or leave a message with your parents! Simpler times, less noise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedDress Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Hmm... I thought that when you unfriended someone, they were automatically untagged from the photos... Maybe not. Either way, I wouldn't sweat it. Did you really want that picture reminder of her? She did you a favour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hausser Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Facebook....ugh. Glad I deactivated my account! No desire whatsoever to reactivate it. There is something to be said about staying off the grid! Friending/unfriending, tagging/untagging, etc....... All stuff that is meaningless that just plays with your head when going through anything relationship related. People just use it as another weapon in the game of love. Just as there was a time before the internet and cell phones and text messages, there was a time when there wasn't facebook! I can remember when a boy wanted to get a hold of you, he had to call your parents house and hope that you were home or leave a message with your parents! Simpler times, less noise. You know, am seriously contemplating deactivating mine after you wrote that, makes sense, I get nothing from it anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus154 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Exactly what learning2relax said. I don't think people appreciate the consequences of being so plugged into each other's lives. Things that happen on facebook are a reflection of what happens in real life, not the other way around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigboy77 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Share Posted August 23, 2011 haha yeah she did do me a favour by untagging them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanzi Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Blocking/deleting/untagging ... its all games and is all meaningless really. One acts, the other reacts. She probably took it that you were trying to get to her and is retaliating. She wants the last word. Anyway, the point is, if you have pretty much moved on then I would try not to read too much into it. Just carry on regardless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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