I Dont Understand

[Shakeybones]

you can, make-out

you can, kiss

you can, hold-hands

you can, have sex (give your virginity to her, even though she isnt one)

you can, have deep conversations

you can, go out all the time and have fun.

 

and you still end up in the got damn FRIEND-ZONE.

 

This just happened to me, I dont even know how that works with women, but it does.

 

all this time i thought i was out of the friend-zone turns out, you can do all of that * * * * and still end up there... its soo damn weird, and it sucks i wanted more, but she doesnt.. but yet she wants to date another guy and started telling me about him

 

what should i do? should i consider her feelings and stay friends with her at the toll of me being a little doggy? or should i cut ties? im honestly leaning towards cutting ties, but she said it's going to hurt her, and i dont want to do that... can somebody help me im soo damn confused.

[banal]

Sorry to hear this man. That is effed up.

 

Ok, here's what I don't understand about dumpees (if you can all yourself this; I will). They're obsessed with not hurting the person who dumped them. What the hell. She FZ'd you and you want more - and you're concerned about her feelings? Sorry...cut ties.

[stuka80]

bro, being in the friend zone means you dont get to be physical with each other. you're not in the friend zone, you're a * * * * buddy. Dont let your emotions get involved or you're truly * * * * ed

[Alezia]

Yeah, you're not in the friendzone, but she just might not be interested in a relationship with you at the present time.

[FathomFear]

bro, being in the friend zone means you dont get to be physical with each other.

 

I think the OP means that he's been relegated to "friend" status, whereas he previously had something more.

 

Assuming this person is around your age, it wouldn't shock me if she just got bored. Seems relatively common for people in their late teens and early 20s to act this way. It takes a while for some people to settle down.

[GarnetRed]

what should i do? should i consider her feelings and stay friends with her at the toll of me being a little doggy? or should i cut ties? im honestly leaning towards cutting ties, but she said it's going to hurt her, and i dont want to do that... can somebody help me im soo damn confused.

 

If she's telling you about the new guy(s) she's dating, knowing you're into her, she doesn't seem to care about hurting you, so why do you care about hurting her? Act like a doormat, and you will get walked on.

[cereza]

wow!! I can't believe it! not all woman are like her..I think u should have ask her before making out or kissing or anything else like that if she had feelings for you and if it was going serious..but you didn't and what you should do now is leave her! get away from her because that of telling you how her date went with someone else is just ridiculous! you never do that to someone you care for. Start dating other girls but this time before you go any deeper with them ask them.

[LoveGuru9]

The best way to make her realize what she is doing,

 

 

Be happy for her, wish her the best, but Don't give her an ear to listen to.

 

 

When * * * * hits the fan with her and the dude, she will come back to you for the attention (which is the first reason you guys were getting along so well, she needed a time pass). But when she does come back, You push her away.

 

Gratitude and Wishful thinking is the way into a snakes mind.

 

 

Smile, your beautiful!