Coconut Twin Posted August 22, 2011 Share Posted August 22, 2011 Logic would say you're only over your ex when you stop thinking about them. Me and my ex broke up beginning of June. He intitated and I just went along with it - you could call it mutual. Nearly 3 months down the line I'm feeling really good! I joined a dating site 2 weeks ago and have been conversing with one guy and yesterday evening was our first phone chat. We have a very smooth rapport with each other, let's just say he is brilliant! We've set a 1st date this Thursday and I'm thoroughly looking forward to it. One thing at the back of my mind though is my ex, he is still there but I feel him fading from my memory and its scary that soon he will have no significance in my life anymore. What's more, I have this guilty feeling like its wrong to move on in which seems a short amount of time...Can people heal quickly? My worry is that I can't tell whether I'm truly over my ex, I know I'm over him love wise but just him as that person who used to be part of my life is still hanging on in my memories.... Am I near the end of the healing process? and am I ready to date this new guy? I don't want to be rebounding with someone, it isn't fair! This guy is gorgeous, witty and so so sexy and I can't stop thinking about him. Oh and his starsign and mine are one of.the best matches in the zodiac (this is a bonus of.course). So yep that's it really. This guy is great, am I ready to date? Any opinions appreciated. Link to comment
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