gnaritas Posted August 22, 2011 Share Posted August 22, 2011 My boyfriend, after 9 months of us being together, through a long distance relationship (we see each other very often though) told me that he isn't in love with me anymore, he just cares about me a lot and that he likes me. Also when apart things aren't going that well but when together we have an awesome, great time, in every level. Um, without being sure, I have suspicions that things are going on with an ex of him. My suspicions aroused when during one visit to him, I found out by accident, through his internet history (which he erases every time I go to his house, this time he just didn't obviate) that he's still checking this ex's blog. My suspicions became even stronger when in this blog he commented (that was last summer), in a "fooling around/cute picking on" way to a love text she wrote towards "someone" she saw again after a long time and she continued to write texts like that the whole year and how empty she felt without him and how she was sure he was empty without her too. And he was checking on her blog this whole time. A day ago, there was a text where she was saying in a loving way that she can't undestand "how you choose to throw away life like that" so I thought there might have been a relation to him not feeling love in our relationship anymore and her knowing it. They were together in 2009, and he told me that was for a few months but I think something's bigger is going on here especially if they were still in contact last summer, and probably even now (he still has her msn) How do I express to him my suspicions or I'm just being paranoid? If something's happening I want to know now.I have asked him, if he's feeling ok and he keeps telling me everything's fine in the relationship but I see that without us seeing each other in person (it's been a month already) he feels kind of numb. Link to comment
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