JDMxTeGrA101 Posted August 22, 2011 Share Posted August 22, 2011 Ok so I've been telling myself I will be going back to school year after year and its been like this for 4 1/2 years already. I am 24 years old and I was set on going back to school this coming fall season. I met this wonderful girl last summer and we became friends & then we became a couple and its our first year together already. Ever since I got with her I changed myself from a regular guy to a classy guy. She is into fashion and got me into shopping at expensive places and wearing expensive accessories (Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Burberry, etc). She even got me into eating out at fancy expensive dinners and I used to be the guy who didn't really care to eat at expensive places because I was more into spending my money on automotive stuff. Now to talk about this wonderful gf I have, she is definitely doing better than me for sure. She's 20 years old and has good paying job and goes to school full time and soon to be into a University while I am just working full time and not getting anywhere with my job other than extra money which I spend most of it weekly and leave the rest to savings. She always questions what I'm going to do with my life and I tell her I am going back into school but spending alot of money isn't cutting it because it makes me want to stay at my full time job because if I go back to school then I won't make as much as I make right now. Maybe this is the main reason why I am procrastinating. I am also trying my best to not shop at expensive places anymore and just buy cheaper clothes since I'm not rich at all. To me it seems like I have no goal and I know if I stick to the guy I am then I'm pretty sure she will lose interest in me while she graduates and makes 3x the money I am making while I am still living at home with my parents. I can move up in my job but with no degree which is the hard part if I ever get fired/laid off etc.. There are alot of guys who like her and I am lucky to have her but I fear I will lose her later on when she gets exposed to the college university life since there are guys who are rich, have nice cars, an education while I just have a full time job and make decent money but it gets spent easy. Any input guys? Link to comment
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