How Come?

[Shakeybones]

How come, women need all this push and pull and spark to consider dating??

 

When us guy's just see one girl that we like, and it pretty much makes all the other girls obsolete for the time being.

 

its something i just cannot figure out.

 

Best thing ive ever heard in awhile... "Women always want push/pull, complain about spark etc" "but all the guy needs is to see you"

[DylanNotorious]

Most women are interested in the spark, not the push-pull. I've never heard of a women who needed push-pull to feel attraction.

 

And women are like men, they see one guy they like and it pretty much makes all other guys obsolete. The pick their man, get comfortable, settle and start the nesting process. haha!

[ForumGuy]

Yes, real attraction and chemistry trumps all.

[xiRoCb294]

Oh, not all women like the "push-pull"... I see it as mere games and manipulation tactics. Too much drama for me.

[lalalollipops]

lol not all guys are like you OP. Lots of guys love the push pull. But it's human nature. We don't want sb soo into us so soon. Abit of back and forth action keeps it interesting.

[iamsisme]

Each woman is different just like every man is different, some women don't like the push and pull aspect while other women do. Personally, I always look for the spark because it lets me know that something is there automatically, instead of trying to force an attraction or feelings. The push pull affect can often times feel like pressure and instability which many women do not want-if they are ready to settle, they are looking for stability. But that is just my opinion.