Saraupu Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 My boyfriend has this female friend he has known since high school. I think they kept in contact every once in a while through email, but not often, until a few years ago when my boyfriend and I started dating. Last spring my boyfriend first mentioned her, he said she started texting him and he wasn't sure how she got his phone number. I know how she got his number, he has on his Facebook profile. I'm pretty sure they email each other through Facebook, or at least she emails him a lot, and I know she texts him pretty regularly and calls him every Saturday it seems at the the same time. He doesn't call her back because he's the type that doesn't like to talk on the phone since he does it for work all the time and he says he only calls her if she needs computer or phone help (my boyfriend is a tech type of guy). He doesn't talk much about her and I've never met her. A few weekends ago we went out of town for the weekend and coincidentally (or maybe not...hmmm..we'll see if it happens again) she was there also with a friend of hers. She was trashed and invited him out, not sure if I was included in that or not. He declined due to the fact we were tired from being at the waterpark all day and not feeling energetic. Maybe for other reasons too (meaning I'd have to tag along...??? not sure). I don't know if he's purposely trying to keep us from meeting. She doesn't hang out in my boyfriend's usual social circle. She's unhappily married, has 6 kids and my boyfriend thinks she's bipolar. I think her husband may be just as crazy as she is. What I'm struggling with is that I think she is being really aggressive in my her contact with my boyfriend and not really respecting our relationship. I think my boyfriend is too nice to tell her to back off. The other thing I struggle with is how often they text, email through Facebook...usually I try my best to not think about it and leave the room, do something else, etc but it is difficult. I'm also often wondering what they may be talking about....are they sexting, is he talking about me, etc...? I really think she might be in love with my boyfriend and I think he is oblivious to it. I'm just looking to hear what people have to say. I know they have this history and I'm not going to tell him to stop being friends with her. I'm not sure if I'm jealous....??? It's the whole not knowing thing that gets to me but I try to be me and the wonderful gf he fell in love with in the first place. Thanks! Link to comment
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