welsh20 Posted August 19, 2011 Share Posted August 19, 2011 Hi everyone, so I'm starting to creep into a situation that could potentially get quite complicated and I felt like I needed to talk to people. I'm 20 and I've been with my current boyfriend for just a month. I've knew him from high school and after around 5 years of not seeing him he asked to meet for a drink etc so I obliged and things sort of just went from there. It was easy and simple to fall into. We're happy, but he does have tendencies that irritate me already (such as being unemployed and making no effort to find a job, and being massively in debt). He's also become very full-on very quickly, which I'm weary of seeing as I've had the same problem with previous partners in the past. So that's a bit about my relationship. The problem is that there's another guy, Mr X. I've been talking to Mr X for a couple of months now, and whilst things began as friendly conversation, things have started to develop and, guiltily, I've started feeling for him. Mr X is a few years older than I am, works in law, is attractive and is exactly what I would label my "type". I've kept an eye on our friendship from the beginning because I felt it was dangerous territory for my relationship, determined to not fall for Mr X and to keep things on a friends-only level. So far I have, I'm not one to cheat, never have; but that doesn't stop me feeling really guilty over my feelings for Mr X, and, as admitted by him, his feelings for me. It's still early days, so who knows, things in the future could potentially not even pan out with Mr X, but right now I'm stuck wondering if I'm in a relationship with the wrong person. The answer to me seems obvious but I feel so guilty and awful for thinking it, even if my current relationship is still in it's early days and not too developed yet. I hate hurting people Link to comment
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