Rhino Posted July 25, 2002 Share Posted July 25, 2002 I need a little advice on how i can make a long distance relationship work...I leave for college in roughly 30 days...i know it should be an exciting time for me to go off and be on my own...but its not...sure its the school i want to be in, but who i want there isnt there...My gf is still goin to be in high school...She has doubts about what is goin to happen to us once i leave...I try my best to be respectful, sweet, caring, and a gentlemen at all times for her...Im totally crazy about her, and dont wana lose my girl.... Im not goin all that far away its a 1 hour drive...I dont want to lose her i finally found some1 i am happy with and now it all may come crashing down because i cant be home a lot... Help ME! Rhino Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brethen1607306433 Posted July 26, 2002 Share Posted July 26, 2002 It is only natural to feel scared of losing someone you love. But this will be a good test of the foundations of your relationship. There is no point worrying now, if things have to happen they will. Just try your best to maintain the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nturner199 Posted August 5, 2002 Share Posted August 5, 2002 All you have to do is keep in touch with her, visit her on weekends and days off from school, and keep that close relationship. If you both are so in-love with each other now, then the distant relationship will only bring you two closer together... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf Posted August 19, 2002 Share Posted August 19, 2002 I did the same thing. The college I attended was only 30 minutes away from my home town and my girlfriend was still there in high school. Truthfully, I feel I ***ed up. I broke it off. There were so many things going on at that time. I never cheated on her, I broke it off before anything happened (Kissing or sex). The first 2 days in college alone, there were new women all extremely friendly walking around the dorms looking to meet new people. You'll see many people in your situation. I bet you if you watch them closely, you see many of those same people with girlfriends/boyfriends back home end the semester with a different person. Even at 30 mins, it was still difficult. She was over there and I was over here. We lasted for a few months, then I told her it just wasn't going to work out. Like I said, I think I ***ed up. She was beautiful, caring, and genuine. I still think about her sometimes even at age 26. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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