moveoneasy Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Broke up with a gf of 3 years and my feelings still linger. She seemed to have moved on so easily and I made it too easy for her. I don't have a facebook profile nor do I use any chatting software. I made it way too easy to completely disappear from her life and she won't have any temptation to view what I'm up to or anything. Do you guys think I'm right? Link to comment
alexandriax Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 When a relationship ends, in my opinion its best to "disappear" like what you describe. It leaves room for the other to wonder "what happened to him/her? what is he doing right now? how is his life going for him?" Link to comment
meoww Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 You might be right, but from my perspective, at least you eliminated the heartache that comes from playing games. Just because she might have struggled more with leaving you, doesn't guarantee she would have stayed. The ball's not in your court anymore, brotha. Good luck with everything though Link to comment
RiceWineSherry Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 It's always better to go M.I.A post breakup. That means blocking, de-activating, or un-friending an ex on any or all social networking sites. My ex made it easier for me by blocking me. Ha! Link to comment
alexandriax Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 It's always better to go M.I.A post breakup. That means blocking, de-activating, or un-friending an ex on any or all social networking sites. My ex made it easier for me by blocking me. Ha! RiceWineSherry, my ex blocks me too! Link to comment
alexandriax Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 moveoneasy, I hope you don't keep sweating this. When its over, its over. I know sometimes its tempting to "rub it in their face" when it comes to having good things going for you in your life now, but at the end of the day, it simply doesn't matter anymore. Keep looking through the windshield, not the rearview mirror. Worry about the thoughts of your NEW girlfriend (when you're ready to have one), not how your ex is dealing with things. Link to comment
blackhawks1287 Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Well who broke up with who? Link to comment
Mustachio Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Yea, see the issue is that you are focusing on how your actions will affect her, and not how your actions will affect you. Regardless of whether you had facebook or chatting software, if she wanted to get in touch with you she would find a way. So, have you really made it easy for her to get over you, or for you to get over her? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 The future of any relationship has nothing to do with Facebook. If she wants to know what you're up to, she'll make the effort to contact you. Facebook is a social networking site, real life is life in the real world. Don't sell yourself short... Link to comment
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