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So, me and this guy dated before but we broke up. The thing is, we only broke up because my friend kind of pressured me into breaking up with him, and so a few weeks later we got back together but not officially. this "unofficial relationship" has been going on for a while now, but i feel like i want to get out of it. like, i don't know how to explain it but im kind of getting bored of being with him? and i thought that must mean that i don't like him anymore. but the problem is, that when we are together or talking with each other, i get very happy and feel like i like him a lot. but sometimes, i feel like i just don't want to be in the relationship anymore. and i will admit that i have flirted with other guys while i was with him, but i felt guilty and stopped. so im not sure if i should break up with him, because im using him in a way, or try to get the feelings back? im so confused

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You sound young, and when you're young, it's all about getting to know who you are and what you like, experimenting with different types of people and having fun, not being in a deep committed relationship. I think it just means you enjoy dating, but you're not ready for a serious relationship with anyone (and probably shouldn't be if you're a teenager).


So have fun and don't try to force commitment or a relationship if you're not ready for it. Just be honest with him and tell him you think he's great, but you're too young to get serious about anybody.

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