Robbie1434 Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 Hi All, I know this has been posted before but i think my situation might be slightly different. I have been dating this Girl for 10 Months now. To cut a looooong story short, her sister got really drunk and asked me to kiss her, which i said no to and that was that. When i told my girlfriend what happened (the next day) she immediately said that its impossible that nothing happened and is adamant that I kissed her sister. I have made it clear to her that i never did anything and i never will either, but she is of the firm belief that something happened that night and that both her sister and myself are lying. Also to make matters worse, i went out for drink with my mate the other night and we decided to go to a different place because it was noisy and we wanted to chat, so we ended up going to a quieter place. Once we arrived, guess who was there... My girl's sister and her friends. I said my hello's to everyone and introduced them to my long lost buddy and we settled down at a table away from her sister. My friend and i got quite drunk and then left. I saw that my girl's sister was very drunk but she insisted on driving home, so i called her to make sure she got home safely but she never answered. (She has a history of passing out in her car) So i tried calling her about three times then gave up and went home. My girlfriend then proceeded to go through my phone while i was sleeping and then, woke me up when she saw the calls to her sister and started a huge fight with me. She is under the impression that i arranged to meet with her sister and accused me of making out with her in the parking lot etc... She has susequently kicked me out of the house and now im forced to stay with my parents until i find my own place to stay. My question is why is she behaving like this, why doesnt she trust me and what can i do to fix this? Link to comment
wildchild1 Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 She is behaving like this because she is not healthy enough for a relationship and has trust issues in general. What you should do is move out and start concentrating on yourself. Then work on finding a woman that won't accuse you of cheating because you were at the grocery store to longer then you planned. Be glad you've only invested 10 months. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Yeah, I think this is done. I'm sorry. Link to comment
Robbie1434 Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Thanks for the advice guys. Im buying a new place this week. Im not holding on for anything at this stage because you have a point. I just remembered what she told me when we fought. She told me that this is her house, and that im not entitled to any feelings, that im a loser and that when she works late i just sit at home. Excuse me.... * * * must i do if she works late?????? She also made me show her my facebook to see what girls im friends with! She now is also saying this break up is my fault now! Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Thanks for the advice guys. Im buying a new place this week. Im not holding on for anything at this stage because you have a point. I just remembered what she told me when we fought. She told me that this is her house, and that im not entitled to any feelings, that im a loser and that when she works late i just sit at home. Excuse me.... * * * must i do if she works late?????? She also made me show her my facebook to see what girls im friends with! She now is also saying this break up is my fault now! Be glad you found out what a pleasant person she is this early. She'll be someone else's problem until enough guys leave her and she wises up. Link to comment
Robbie1434 Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Sad...so so sad though! What she hasnt realized yet is that when i move to my new place she doesnt have any couches, dining room table TV or Patio suite left because they all belong to me... ouch Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Don't worry. She'll have her sour bitterness to sit on. Link to comment
Robbie1434 Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 To True, just not nice going through this. I do love her and care for her but she will definitely find that there are very very little guys that would actually put up with her crap for long. Link to comment
Robbie1434 Posted August 4, 2011 Author Share Posted August 4, 2011 Latest update. She asked me to come over for dinner tonight via SMS so i replied that would be fine. Shortly thereafter we carried on texting each other and she said that and i quote "maybe i must find a guy that does not at other women, i think ill find a girl" * * * ! I never ever even so much as looked as other women, i was happy with her, she used to have to point out women to me!?! Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 I think it's time to punt this girl back into the single water, man. Link to comment
Robbie1434 Posted August 4, 2011 Author Share Posted August 4, 2011 Yeah Maybe, she needs to be dumped a few time so she can wake up! Link to comment
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