Cariadkaz Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 i have been with my partner a year in august , during that year we have had our ups and downs ,but i do love him and he says he loves me !,problem is i recently found out that he has been talking to other women on facebook behind my back! about sex! i confronted him about it , he says that its not that he is not happy with me and our sex life its just it turns him on , he hasnt made any attempt to meet any of these women as most live far away and even abroad but he doesnt seem to think he is doing anything wrong !and doesnt seem to care how i feel about it and when i try to talk to him bout it he behaves like he is the injured party!!! i told him i feel disrespected, betrayed and very hurt and asked him his intentions ,he says its just fun and doesnt want anyone else and isnt looking but why do i feel so bad??????? its made me mistrust him now , i told him its them or me ! but dont think he will stop , what do i do as i do love him! ??? Am i overreacting??? Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 You are not overreacting. There is something wrong here. He needs to address why he is still pursuing other women when he is committed to you. Acting injured and making excuses is not really getting down to his motivations. You sound very needy and clinging when you say "I don't think he will stop but what do I do since I love him..." If he decides to continue, you can back your threats up with action and leave.... or continue to have your self confidence eroded. It is your choice. Link to comment
Cariadkaz Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 i know its my choice , and my self confidence is non existent as this has happened to me in another relationship,looks like i got a lot of thinking to do ! thanks for your reply. Link to comment
markfromark Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 most of those "online ladies" are dudes living in their parent's basement. It's a fact that lots of weirdos pretend they are women and get off talking dirty to other men. Feel sorry about your boyfriend instead and dump him. Link to comment
metal angel Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 this is not uncommon. I have many friends that this has been done to. And I have always said the same thing. if your not happy you cant spend the rest of your life pretending that you are. So do yourself a favour and stand up to him about it before this gets any worse. Link to comment
Cariadkaz Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 yes thanks i have stood up to him and he now says he will stop as he can see how i feel about it , well everyone deserves a chance so will see how it goes thanks all xxx Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I'm curious. How was your sexlife with him before this? Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.