svdk123 Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 Ok...im 21. i got into a relationship with my bf 3 years ago. we were happy. he was my 1st love and we moved in together. he wasn't working at that time and i was a college student...i helped him financially but my studies were never affected. So...for 3 years, we lived together, we were very close. The whole life was about us. We ate, slept, took showers together. He was a "bad boy" before he met me...socialising n having fun. I changed him and made him a better person. Then he got a job n cheated, we broke up. He wanted to be friends, i was devastated but agreed. We had sex and one day, i found out he was sent to jail, for stealing. Although he dumped me, i bailed him out and we were together again. He showed so much love and aprreciation. Then he got a job n cheated again. We broke up and got back together. He said he loves me and was ashamed of cheating, as i was very honest n loyal. He said i was the best lover he had. After 3 years, we broke up 2 weeks ago, cos he cheated again. He told my friends he wants to be free. After breaking up, we never discussed anything about our relationship, but 6 days after the break up, he was in a relationship with someone new. Shocking! I was speechless but i congratulated him. Things went bad when he brought his new bf home, just to show off. I still smiled and said i was happy for him. Then he told my friends that his new lover is the best and he is really happy without me. He told my friends that he wants to do new things and be happy. He came to me and said his new lover got him a new job. Without shame, he praised his new lover of one week, without even mentioning the 3 years i sacrificed for him ( he used ti hit me and curse me when he got angry ). I forgave everything. But its disappointing how he can replace me in 6 days...i stayed by his side for 3 years... 1) I am beginning to forget him, and he will move out next week. But is it possible he forgot me? or just buried his feelings? he wants to be friends... 2) is he on a rebound? 3) How can someone forget all the deeds i've done? I STAYED LOYAL, SINCERE, HONEST.... Link to comment
Fudgie Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 This guy is scum. He's cheated on you not once but TWICE, plus he steals, and hits and abuses you. I say cut him loose and with time, you'll start to really SEE what sort of a trash person he is. You can't see it now because you're still in love with him but in time, you'll see that he isn't any good. Don't even remain in contact with him. Link to comment
chitown9 Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 Oh, yeah..say good ridance to this one. With time the only regret that you have is that you did not cut him loose a long time ago. Find someone who treats you well... Link to comment
svdk123 Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 THANKS GUYS! Its hard cos i spent so much time n love/emotion on him....i think it will be hard at first. I forgive him but the sadness is still there... Link to comment
chitown9 Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 THANKS GUYS! Its hard cos i spent so much time n love/emotion on him....i think it will be hard at first. I forgive him but the sadness is still there... You need to think of this: it did not spend that much time and love/emotion on you. You are so much better off with this guy....chi Link to comment
svdk123 Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 you need to think of this: It did not spend that much time and love/emotion on you. You are so much better off with this guy....chi hm...yes. I agree. I just loved him too much...and did not love myself enough. He will be moving out by the end of this week with his new lover. I think i will be much better without seeing him anymore...it was hard seeing him since he did not move out after the break up. He brought his new lover home and showed his happiness. That made me depressed. Now that he will be gone, the burden will be less. Link to comment
svdk123 Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 I say cut him loose and with time, you'll start to really SEE what sort of a trash person he is. You can't see it now because you're still in love with him but in time, you'll see that he isn't any good. Don't even remain in contact with him YES...I guess i still love him...but not like before. I know it...my love is getting less Link to comment
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