Has any one ever got the girl that you thought she was out of your league?

[deanlanders]

What do girls look for in a boy? looks or?

 

Also has any one got any stories about getting a hot girl who once thought you'd never get her?

[ks240030]

I can only speak for myself but here are the qualities I look in a boy:

 

1. Considerate

2. Funny

3. Romantic

4. Generous

5. Intelligent

[Stay_home]

As long as you're not a doormat, you've got a little self confidence and a little bit of looks - you've got a shot with just about anybody. The problem a lot of time is that we disqualify ourselves before even getting to the gate.

[deanlanders]

I do have confidence and I have been told that I have some looks. Thanks for the input

[Kitkat973]

I ended up married to someone who I'd mark as pretty far out of my league. As for the how? He was one of my best friends.

 

As for what I look for in a partner, similar interests/worldview probably tops my list.

[sara-pezzini]

don't know if it counts but i got the man who i was convinced was wayyyy out of my league.....so yeah it is possible...looks aren't everything....sweet and genuine caring guys with a sense of humor, without being a pushover of course, are attractive to any girl....when i first saw my Bf i noticed his looks obviously, but what made me fall in love was his sense of humor, his sweet character and his genuine interest in me, remembering every little detail i told him, the romantic way he can say things, his opening doors for me and all that old fashioned stuff, like kissing my hand.....his opening up to me and letting me in and trusting me..... and he can make me laugh like no one can...and he is still also the sexiest and most gorgeous man i ever saw in real life! lol

[thejigsup]

What do you mean by "league"? We're all in the same league, we are all human beings. Now, if you mean someone who has more looks, or money, or education, then, yes, I have gotten men "out of my league" many times. Why? No one is more charming or witty than I am when I want to be. I charmed the pants off of them. Men love to be flattered, as do women. When you make someone feel good about themselves they automatically are attracted to you. So charm, and being tall and blonde, have gotten me many men "out of my league".

[Firiel]

My husband still says I am "out of his league" looks-wise. I don't feel that way, of course, but I was attracted to his sense of humor, love for the people surrounding him, optimistic outlook, and passion for music. For me, physical attraction always builds out of emotional/mental attraction, so the things he was self-conscious about didn't really bother me.

[Day_Walker]

I dont think that any person should think another person is out of their league simply because a person won the genetic lottery. Being attracted to a person has other elements than looks.

[magnoliatree]

As long as you're not a doormat, you've got a little self confidence and a little bit of looks - you've got a shot with just about anybody. The problem a lot of time is that we disqualify ourselves before even getting to the gate.

 

This totally. Also, some guys get so close to getting a girl and then let their insecurities completely ruin it. Don't psych yourself out ever!

[MasterPo]

Sure. Attracting is one thing, keeping a level of interest is rather hard work. I decided long ago that my anyone special would have to low maintenance and share or at least have some interest in the stuff I do. I think the ideal girl, at least for me, is someone that is willing to experience life and is a great conversationalist/listener. Very hard to find and BS artist are uncovered rather quickly.

 

My EX was not "out of my league" but the latter and I suppose that's why I miss her so much. No matter, I have enough confidence to try again but not just yet.