999joe Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Hey peeps, ive recently started talking to this girl, she is 28 i am 21. she is best mates sister and she is already married. we have already gone through intercourse a couple of times, i really like this girl but i feel really bad because she is married. She always says she has made a bad decision on marrying the man and she is fed up of being with him already. Is there any hope on me being with this girl? Link to comment
Stay_home Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Not if she's married I would say, no. Sorry. Link to comment
elcie Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 If she's cheating on her husband, she's not the perfect girl! Link to comment
blackhawks1287 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Wow...face palming as I read this... You feel bad that you cheated, but you still seek out a relationship with this woman. And the system perpetuates... My advice...there could be hope but you are 21 years old and you have helped her cheat a marriage...why would you want to be with this woman? Because she gets you and you get her, but due to terrible circumstances you guys can't be together? Dude...get over this and quit involving yourself with women that are in relationships. The challenge isn't preying on an unhappy woman in a marriage, the challenge tackling one that isn't and making it last. Link to comment
DanDee Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I get the impression she just wants a bit on the side, and you're that bit. You're far too young to be involved in any of this sort of nonsense - get out there and meet girls your own age who don't have this baggage! And yeah, she sounds far from perfect. Link to comment
999joe Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 im not sure if shes just using me for sex, but when we talk she makes it sound like shes maddly in love with me, i mean she has all the right attributes i look for in a woman, so damn typical that i find her to be married. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I'm sure if her husband finds this out, she won't be the perfect girl. Link to comment
blackhawks1287 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 She is saying those things to make you feel good, to make you feel attached, so she can use you. She knows what you like, building herself into that image, and because she is taken you only want her more. You didn't find her...she found you. We are warning you...get as far away from this situation as possible... Link to comment
lalalollipops Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I didn't know you looked for somebody who's a liar, cheater and who's selfish as traits for the ideal girl? How novel. Link to comment
xyzzzz Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 im not sure if shes just using me for sex, but when we talk she makes it sound like shes maddly in love with me, i mean she has all the right attributes i look for in a woman, so damn typical that i find her to be married. im very surprised that loyalty isnt one of the right attributes you look for in a woman?? Link to comment
DanDee Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I'm not sure if she's using you for sex, but she sound like she's using you for an ego boost. How flattering would it be for anyone to have two people in love with them? And exciting too, with the creeping around? Sorry, but if she wanted you that badly and was so unhappy, she would leave her husband. She isn't going to do that so best leave her be and find someone with more morals and more your own age. Heck, she'll no doubt start wanting children in the next few years - and at just 21, I doubt that's something you would want. Look at it realistically. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 im not sure if shes just using me for sex, but when we talk she makes it sound like shes maddly in love with me, i mean she has all the right attributes i look for in a woman, so damn typical that i find her to be married. What is going on with you you can't refrain from sex with a married woman? Link to comment
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