pcdoctor Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Hey Guys: I was wondering, have you ever engaged in oral sex such as licking the girl's vagina? If so, has your girl cummed doing it? Has she ejaculated into your mouth even? Link to comment
banal Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Yes and yes and yes. With every girlfriend I've had. I recommend it highly if you don't do it already. Link to comment
Unwanted Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Depends on the girl. And depends on how the guy performs. Maybe it hasn't been performed on me correctly because I get anxious and I start thinking this: What if I accidentally fart in his face?!?!?!?! So I get nervous then my focus is elsewhere ie trying not to fart in his face. And I also start feeling every single tastebud...so then I'm distracted and feel very sensitive, and hence don't cum. Ehhh I don't know whether this helps at all... I guess my point is you gotta have the winning combination...maybe? Link to comment
banal Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Yes; no; no. I need some tips. Women will have to correct me, but in my experience there's not one right way to do it. Hopefully your partner doesn't sit there absolutely motionless and silent. Take her body language and, well, moaning, as cues for what you should be concentrating on. Link to comment
Snowy Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Women will have to correct me, but in my experience there's not one right way to do it. Hopefully your partner doesn't sit there absolutely motionless and silent. Take her body language and, well, moaning, as cues for what you should be concentrating on. I'm very inexperienced with oral. (Pretty much clueless) Well, body language and sounds are obviously things I would want to be aware of; but I need something to start me off. For example, when a girl first learns how to give a handjob, she has to know that she is suppose to stoke it up and down right? She can then improve from there. I just need something to start off with. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I'm very inexperienced with oral. (Pretty much clueless) Well, body language and sounds are obviously things I would want to be aware of; but I need something to start me off. For example, when a girl first learns how to give a handjob, she has to know that she is suppose to stoke it up and down right? She can then improve from there. I just need something to start off with. In all seriousness...start off by licking the alphabet on her clit. Im telling you it works. I dont do that anymore because Ive developed techniques that drive my girl insane, but back when I first started giving oral, I heard "lick the alphabet" and damn if it didnt work LOL Link to comment
banal Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I'm very inexperienced with oral. (Pretty much clueless) Well, body language and sounds are obviously things I would want to be aware of; but I need something to start me off. For example, when a girl first learns how to give a handjob, she has to know that she is suppose to stoke it up and down right? She can then improve from there. I just need something to start off with. Lick her clit. Don't go too fast at first. Don't like it like an ice cream, either...this is hard to describe, but I sort of stick my tongue out and move the tip back and forth. Vary speeds. If she's the type of woman who needs some tension and buildup, then take your time to warm her up. Kiss her thighs, belly, etc, just all-around erotic stuff. Link to comment
tmtex Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Yes and yes but like others have said each person is different. You could have one where you barely touch and is going all over the place, cuming multiple times and then another who just likes it but it doesnt do much for them. Link to comment
Weeb Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Lick her clit. Don't go too fast at first. Don't like it like an ice cream, either...this is hard to describe, but I sort of stick my tongue out and move the tip back and forth. Vary speeds. If she's the type of woman who needs some tension and buildup, then take your time to warm her up. Kiss her thighs, belly, etc, just all-around erotic stuff. Yep. Just try different things, Snowy. You can lick and even sort of suck the clit, but don't focus entirely on the one spot. Vary the pressure and speed and see what works. Every girl is going to be different. The guys who are good are the ones that can change it up and figure out what works for each girl they are with. And you'll never get good at oral by just hooking up with a girl once. Link to comment
pcdoctor Posted July 27, 2011 Author Share Posted July 27, 2011 OK Guys: I would like to know too. Have you had girls suck your penis? If so, how do you like that and do you ejaculate when they do so? Link to comment
tmtex Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 How old are you? Yes and yes/sometimes. Oral sex is usually foreplay into actual intercourse but not always the case. Link to comment
tresqua Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Lick her clit. .. Vary speeds. Maybe vary the speed at first until you find what works, then keep it steady and do NOT speed up or increase the intensity as she approaches orgasm, stay the course until she's done then slowly taper down to a stop. Link to comment
whes Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Maybe it hasn't been performed on me correctly because I get anxious and I start thinking this: What if I accidentally fart in his face?!?!?!?! Ahaha!! Sorry, nothing else. Except the alphabet idea sounds intriguing. Definitely agreeing with tresqua. Find the rhythm and DON'T CHANGE IT once she starts to orgasm. It only distracts. Link to comment
Snowy Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 In all seriousness...start off by licking the alphabet on her clit. Im telling you it works. I dont do that anymore because Ive developed techniques that drive my girl insane, but back when I first started giving oral, I heard "lick the alphabet" and damn if it didnt work LOL Lick her clit. Don't go too fast at first. Don't like it like an ice cream, either...this is hard to describe, but I sort of stick my tongue out and move the tip back and forth. Vary speeds. If she's the type of woman who needs some tension and buildup, then take your time to warm her up. Kiss her thighs, belly, etc, just all-around erotic stuff. Yep. Just try different things, Snowy. You can lick and even sort of suck the clit, but don't focus entirely on the one spot. Vary the pressure and speed and see what works. Every girl is going to be different. The guys who are good are the ones that can change it up and figure out what works for each girl they are with. And you'll never get good at oral by just hooking up with a girl once. Yeah I've tried licking the clit lol. Apparently it was ticklish for her and she didn't like it. (I feel a bit weird asking sex questions here LOL) >_> Link to comment
banal Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 If it's ticklish then maybe there was an issue with your speed-too fast- or force-too hard. If your girl would find direct stimulation to her clit as too ticklish, no matter what it is, then you're out of luck, because that's kind of the whole point of oral sex. Still, you may have been too fast and hard...or something. Try again, ask her what she likes or wants you to do. I consider myself pretty skilled down there, and I had one girlfriend who didn't seem to give any response, so I just asked her directly what she wanted and where she wanted me to go. Better to ask those questions here than...I don't know. The gas station. Or Wal-Mart. Link to comment
MakeItCount Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 HAhaha, ask the wal-mart greeters. Those guys have been around the block. Good advice in here, but in my experience most girls have been different from each other. One girl liked it slow and soft, another wanted me to go at her clit like it was going out of style as she was about to cum. Edit: just realized I've said that in 4 different threads. Oh well. Wakka wakka. Link to comment
mfan Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 In all seriousness...start off by licking the alphabet on her clit. Im telling you it works. But the clit is so tiny - do you mean that the man should lick the alphabet on a very wide area surrounding and including her clit, or just the clit itself, licking teeeeeny micro-movement vibrations? Also, would writing 1, 2, 3 instead of the alphabet be acceptable? I am more of a mathematical person than a language person. Just kidding Link to comment
DD123 Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 man... my bf has done this to me but i think he stopped because i didnt give him the OMG reaction he gets when he fingers me or something. i kinda wish he would try just working on his technique lol. that or im also kinda worried he thinks its gross or something. but im afraid to ask hahah Link to comment
asdf02932093 Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 But the clit is so tiny - do you mean that the man should lick the alphabet on a very wide area surrounding and including her clit, or just the clit itself, licking teeeeeny micro-movement vibrations? Also, would writing 1, 2, 3 instead of the alphabet be acceptable? I am more of a mathematical person than a language person. Just kidding The alphabet trick is pretty common, and thus some girls will even joke about it if they can tell you are doing it. You don't actually make the letter, but pretend as if you are drawing the letter on their clitoris, even if you are only licking an incredibly small area (the tip of her clit). This provides unique sensations that are not necessarily predicable. While women generally don't want you to deviate your pattern once they are irrevocably headed for a peak (i.e. don't switch it up if she is panting and clearly about to orgasm, and this includes not INCREASING SPEED either), during the foreplay part of the foreplay (if that makes sense), movement of the tongue like letters and numbers can feel like a bit of a change up if you generally perform circles or have a standard licking pattern. Also most women do not "ejaculate" from orgasm (even if they have the potential), and EXCEEDINGLY few ejaculate merely from clitoral orgasm (which is what oral is about), it almost always requires gspot stimulation AFAIK. Link to comment
Chicklet Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Just learn where the damn g-spot is and you're home free baby!!!! lol I have actually squirted from this experience. WOWZA!!! lol Link to comment
Chicklet Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 This alphabet thing cracks me up!!! LOL. If I were a man, I couldn't do it....for one, I'd fear that she was on to me. lol. For two, it seems like all of the concentration would probably take away from the whole experience. I think that you guys just worry too much. And to the whole, "women don't orgasm as often from clitoral stimulation" or whatever you said...lol. Well, WRONG. LOL. I get off every time. And yeah, the g-spot stimulated has made me squirt. I know, I'm a lucky woman. lol To all you fellas....Just do one thing. Ask her what feels good. That's it. Just ask. And also be sure to google "how to give a g-spot orgasm", cuz if you get that little ditty down to a science....she's gonna LOVE you. My guy is very good at it He read how to do it...on Google. lol Link to comment
asdf02932093 Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 This alphabet thing cracks me up!!! LOL. If I were a man, I couldn't do it....for one, I'd fear that she was on to me. lol. For two, it seems like all of the concentration would probably take away from the whole experience. I think that you guys just worry too much. And to the whole, "women don't orgasm as often from clitoral stimulation" or whatever you said...lol. Well, WRONG. LOL. I get off every time. And yeah, the g-spot stimulated has made me squirt. I know, I'm a lucky woman. lol Please read before laughing dear. The quote was: Also most women do not "ejaculate" from orgasm (even if they have the potential), and EXCEEDINGLY few ejaculate merely from clitoral orgasm (which is what oral is about), it almost always requires gspot stimulation AFAIK. Female Ejaculation or "Squirting" is not a common response to purely clitoral stimulation AFAIK, it seems to happen far more often (if at all) from stimulation of the gspot. I never suggested in any way women don't orgasm from oral sex, that is ridiculous. Link to comment
regular joe Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 This is where taking Latin in High School has finally become useful and has really paid off. I do it in the old Latin alphabet, drives them wild and they no idea what it is I am doing. Link to comment
mfan Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 I was thinking Chinese characters might work - I could practice my Chinese penmanship and make someone else happy at the same time! Link to comment
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