kemka16 Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I need some advice. I met this guy on an online dating site (he winked at me) and we chatted for a couple of days and exchanged numbers. Our first date went well (at least I think it did) and I couldnt find a cab and he dropped me at home. We hugged when he dropped me home. I sent him a text to say thanks and I had a good time and his reply was that he did too and that I was a great girl. Two days later he sends me a text asking how I felt about him and I told him, he was easy to talk to and open etc. He asked me on a second date and we went to see a movie and when he dropped me off we ended up kissing. Lots of kisses but no touching. This has never happened to me before and I was shocked at my behaviour. I like him and find him interesting and would want to get to know him more. I sent him a text later saying thanks for the date and havent received a reply. I know its only 24 hours since the date but am wondering if I killed any chances with him by the kiss??or maybe he isnt interested? Any advice is most welcome. Link to comment
banal Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I really doubt you killed your chances by kissing him...he'd have to be some seriously conservative dude for that to be the case. I don't know what's going through his mind. If someone enjoyed being with you, chances are that he'll let you know, especially if he's established a pattern of doing so already. It's not like you could say, well, he's not the type to respond right away, because he already did that before. Maybe he's not as interested in you as he once was. Still, it's only been one day, so give it some time before giving him up for lost. Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Some tips to use. IF he does text you, and asks you again how do you feel about him. Reply with "I'm not sure yet, we will see" and be a little hard to get. Do not text him again until he texts you. Don't sleep with him Don't tell him everything your thinking/feeling. Create mystery. If he thinks he has you in the bag, he will loose interest pretty quick. Keep him on his toes. Link to comment
katycloud Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 I'd just call him or text him and see what the deal was I hate waiting! Link to comment
BriarRose Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 It's only been 24 hours. I wouldn't write him off until a few days. No, there is nothing wrong with kissing on a second date. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 It's so early yet. Don't worry! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted July 27, 2011 Share Posted July 27, 2011 Unless you really had bad breath when kissing him I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure he will contact you, probably is busy. GL Link to comment
kemka16 Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 Thanks guys, much appreciated and I guess yes its still to early to judge and well if it doesnt work i guess there are many other fish in the sea!! Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Why do women text guys first after a date? That's just not my style - too old school. lol I'd let him do the chasing. Being so available can make some guys lose interest. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.