Carus Posted December 5, 2019 Author Share Posted December 5, 2019 A rebounder isn't the one who can tell you that he's rebounding, only the calendar does that. Rebounders have lousy judgment. Love it.....* Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 5, 2019 Share Posted December 5, 2019 One of the truest ones yet😋Well I think we're just talking to ourselves now anyway.....lol Link to comment
SherrySher Posted December 5, 2019 Share Posted December 5, 2019 The only closure is time - and that healing time does not start until you cut contact. So very true. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted December 26, 2019 Share Posted December 26, 2019 Brilliant! Personally, I don't like when intimacy feels like putting together Ikea furniture. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 5, 2020 Share Posted January 5, 2020 Very true words. I also likely associated this girl with the pain of my divorce subconsciously, and this really still feels awful to admit because she didn’t deserve that. My rebound got me through the hardest time in my life, but circumstances ruined our chances, and it made me attach to someone with more attraction than I had actually felt. She deserves better than having filled with role in my life, and I hope she’s okay and found someone who deserves her. Link to comment
EternalOptimis Posted January 9, 2020 Share Posted January 9, 2020 Unfortunately I cannot credit these as they were collected over time, but thank you. These helped me a lot back when.. - Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; Courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. - When there is no comprehension of cause and effect, there is no motive for real change. - If you change nothing, nothing changes. - When someone shows you who they are, believe them. - The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind. - Never ask a liar for the truth, it's the last thing you will get. - Persistence can change failure into extraordinary achievement. - The grass is only greener on the other side if you neglect to take care of your lawn - Love & attachment are not the same. When you love someone you protect them from hurt. You don't barter and negotiate boundaries. - Some relationships are a fantasy. You make-believe that your partner is the person you want them to be. Who they really are might be a toxic partner. And though it's hard to forget the good times, your relationship was toxic to you and now that poison is leaving. - When you start rationalising and accepting a cheater's behaviour/excuses, you start playing a game of how low can you go. - She showed you how to get lost, and you showed yourself how to get found. - How others treat me is their path; how I react is mine. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 Unfortunately I cannot credit these as they were collected over time, but thank you. These helped me a lot back when.. - Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; Courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. That's the serenity prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference. Link to comment
Carus Posted January 13, 2020 Author Share Posted January 13, 2020 Actually, NC probably improves your chances, but improving a very small chance is still a very small chance. Nicely stated* Link to comment
Carus Posted January 13, 2020 Author Share Posted January 13, 2020 Always be the best version of yourself and stand strong in knowing that you are valuable. Always good to read that* Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 24, 2020 Share Posted January 24, 2020 Wonder what the Magic 8 ball will say next. Cut off sex is a popular one.: https://www.8-ball-magic.com/index.php After that, the only thing left is to pull out the big guns - leave him for awhile, or cut off sex. Link to comment
Carus Posted February 18, 2020 Author Share Posted February 18, 2020 It takes two to want the same thing and work equally as hard to get it. If the desire is only on one side there is no chance. ............ Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 20, 2020 Share Posted February 20, 2020 One of the best pearls of wisdom ever written: Romance is not medicine, which is why we have doctors. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 10, 2020 Share Posted April 10, 2020 Best response yet.Could have been worse, he could have got you a chastity belt.https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=564275&p=7210392&viewfull=1#post7210392 Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Great list of facts Here are some facts about cheaters: 1. They lie 2. When caught they lie some more 3. When given another chance they learn to hide it better but still cheat 4. I love you is a pick up line to them 5. They are extremely selfish and only really care about their wants 6. They are really good at making excuses "I was drunk" 7. They are really good at turning it back on you the victim. 8. They will continue to cheat because they can Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted May 29, 2020 Share Posted May 29, 2020 Great statement! At first, I was devastated beyond words but now I find that I am much happier without his sorry a$$. Link to comment
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