delicous Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 This might have been asked before but Im pretty concerned about it....Uuuum....a little history: When I first started having sex, I couldn't for the life of me cum. I could get off and feel really good and getting pretty wet down there and excited but could never release what it was that I was getting excited about. I just could not get my mind to go there. Well I was in a 2.5 yr relationship with my boyfriend at the time and I honest couldn't get off with him as far as "cumming" and he actually would get frustrated and give up during ...eating me out...What he didn't know is ....I was afraid of "peeing" or "farting" or WORSE!!!!!!, the sounds turned me off whenever Id get really wet and he would be having sex with me, that sound turned me off...Fast forward.........-----> We broke up, hes with someone else..blah... ---I ended up getting with somebody else, finding a new partner to have sex with and what not..Well with him, I was actually "the mistress.." And knowing I was the mistress I think...Made me let lose like id never done before, while I was with him, Id watch porn by myself thinking about being with him again and just ways to turn him on and what I could do to strengthen sex between us...He broke up with his gf and she moved out....After this our sex went down hill....But quickly picked back up again...he couldn't even make me cum, cum....Like I got wet and would feel extrememly good, but no actually waterfall, cum fluid would come out that was noticeable...I finallly came one day while I was watching porn and then laid down and came...Like, liquid, watery cum..it didn't smell or anything....WHich leads to my question..........? When you cum or make a girl cum does it smell? Do any of you girls pee a little? Just wondering because I can now cum freely by releasing my muscles and completley relaxing by dropping my butt and lifting my hips buuuut, it smells, so im wondering if I pee'd? Right after I release, I go pee!...And its a strong stream, not like a few drops...So Im assuming I came and thats what I smell like or something is infected or....I don't know, Id hate to ask my gyno this question, it would be akward... Ok so when him and I were broken up i ended up being with someone else...He did something, id NEVER experience before, he fngered me and cornered my gspot like NOBODY has ever done before and it felt really really really good and it forced me to release like "squirt" like "waterfall squirt" WHy can't I get myself to do that? I realized a smell after this too and he pushed on my abdomen whenever Id be releasing and I wonder if I pee'd???? I know it wasn't full on pee, but is it possible some could of came out of my pee hole while i was cumming out of my vagina?..... If this is the case, does ANYBODY know of anything I can do to keep this from happening? and i do usually empty my bladder before i have sex or take care of myself....Another thing is, I feel really really good right before I release but whenever I go to release I don't feel like extra good, just fluid coming out of me...I really hope im not peeing, im pretty sure im not or it wouldn't be in a sticky wattery conistancy...Please help!!! Guys I know its embarrassing and for some of you, it may have been to graphic but I can't explain it any other way then this.... Please anyone with experience with this, HEEEEELP!!!! Im too embarrased to ask my girlfriends about this and will NEVER ask my mother... Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 You do know that some girls can ejaculate right? It is clear liquid that is NOT urine and comes out either dripping out slowly or pouring out like a hose. Only few women can do this. link removed Oh... and to some guys (i have never personally seen a girl do it) being able to make a female ejaculate - also known as squirting - is considered to be the peak of a partners ability to get her off. Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 You do know that some girls can ejaculate right? It is clear liquid that is NOT urine and comes out either dripping out slowly or pouring out like a hose. Only few women can do this. link removed Oh... and to some guys (i have never personally seen a girl do it) being able to make a female ejaculate - also known as squirting - is considered to be the peak of a partners ability to get her off. it also feels amazing. well...that's my two cents anyway. i don't think it correlates to any sexual prowess. combination of a whole bunch of things going right. and from my perspective... it felt good...to me. just a warm feeling of goodness. i think it's fantastic...and amazing...and altogether a lot of fun when it happens!! but that's me... Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 it also feels amazing. well...that's my two cents anyway. i don't think it correlates to any sexual prowess. combination of a whole bunch of things going right. and from my perspective... it felt good...to me. just a warm feeling of goodness. i think it's fantastic...and amazing...and altogether a lot of fun when it happens!! but that's me... Oh absolutely. If I was responsible for being able to do that for a girl... it would make me feel totally in sync with her body. I only regret i have never met a girl who could do it. Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 ^^ maybe i'm misunderstanding...but for me it's never a psychological thing. the enjoyment is purely physical from my end. Link to comment
greywolf Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 If it feels good, does it really matter where the fluid is coming from? It could be pee, or it could be an ejaculation, but my opinion is that it doesn't matter if it feels good. Link to comment
delicous Posted July 16, 2011 Author Share Posted July 16, 2011 lol, thanks ...Yeah I still have questions because it does have a smell to it...Like sex I guess...maybe thats the smell thats in my body and not necessarily pee, because pee is very odery and this, it has a smell but not an odor, odor...Its hard to explain...Thanks guys, that makes me feel pretty unique=) But guys, I didn't use to always be like this, I can do it myself now and never use to be able to...Thank my 2nd partner after my ex and I broke up, he didn't necessarily teach me but he inspired me to get in sync with my own body, and my ex tooo in a way because he got mad when I didn't.... Im afraid to cum on a mans face though because what if there is a little urine coming out to?? ewww, thatd be like peeing on there face lmao!.... its not YELLOW though, its silky, watery and clear ...soooo?...haha...I did have a guy ask me if i was peeing on him, but I wasn't , i was feeling good and released,.....uuuum yeah...So...thanks guys, makes me a feel a little better knowing its rare to do....Buuuut...Still kind of self concience and wanna make sure my bladder isn't weak or anything...doesnt kegals tighten everything including the bladder? Link to comment
delicous Posted July 16, 2011 Author Share Posted July 16, 2011 90hoursleep maybe i'm misunderstanding...but for me it's never a psychological thing. the enjoyment is purely physical from my end. Yes it starts out physical but the physical pressure feeling causes emotions and psycological feelings..Its really great when it done right... Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 90hoursleep Yes it starts out physical but the physical pressure feeling causes emotions and psycological feelings..Its really great when it done right... for yourself you mean? makes sense. i was referring to myself. the physical feeling for me when i've been with someone who has this kind of orgasm. i don't feel special or associate it with something that i've done. it just...feels good (kind of like what greywolf said). yippeee! maybe the guy you were with felt the same as me? Link to comment
BolthMannn Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 EVERY woman can ejaculate, actually. jussayin. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 EVERY woman can ejaculate, actually. jussayin. link removed Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 16, 2011 Share Posted July 16, 2011 Just warn the guy you have down between your thighs that you can and are likely to ejaculate - and explain to him exactly what that means. If you make him understand that having you ejaculate like that, is a sure sign that he has hit that 'sweet spot', i am sure he will be filled with anticipation! Oh and it isnt an ''automatic'' ability. A lot of girls will never know they can do it until it happens. I would imagine some girls will never know since a guy might never be able to 'take them there'. Link to comment
delicous Posted July 16, 2011 Author Share Posted July 16, 2011 Oh and it isnt an ''automatic'' ability. A lot of girls will never know they can do it until it happens. I would imagine some girls will never know since a guy might never be able to 'take them there'. Thats a VEEERY important sentence...Because if you read my history , I NEVER thought I could even CUM...SOoooo yeah, ladies best tip to do so is to enjoy the moment your in and when u feel like peeing lift ur hips, drop ur butt and relax and Squeeze, it will feel invigorating, no joke...=) I had phone sex the other night and omg...if the man is saying the right things its almost like he's there with you, its such a nice feeling and ..yeah can't wait to be re united with my ex, he is going to be drooooling=)p, dripping and so much more!!... Not every women can do it because not every women is comfortable enough to relax, I was that women but you can if you practice and I watched porn, I read about how to get myself off and my partner, i watched some tutorials and red----can't remember the name of it red, something and she just made me realize just how great sex is...and being broken up with from my ex and us not doing it for the last 2 mnths made me super curious ...and just a lot brought me in touch with my body... Link to comment
BPshorty Posted July 17, 2011 Share Posted July 17, 2011 hmm mine doesnt smell, it odourless but my boyfriend said it tastes like sugar and give him lots of it...ahahah.... but im sure it depends on your diet. Do you eat alot of meat ? Link to comment
delicous Posted July 17, 2011 Author Share Posted July 17, 2011 yeah, i eat meat lol....yeah its strange, thats why i posted here is because thats what I hear too that its supose to be like sugar water hah... Link to comment
delicous Posted July 18, 2011 Author Share Posted July 18, 2011 hope I dont have an infection of some sourt...I just got over Bv and yeast....grrr...this is the one thing I can't stand about being a girl, we have to be so dang careful what goes in our hoo ha!... Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted July 18, 2011 Share Posted July 18, 2011 My girl cums hard and often....I usually like to taste it and its generally sweet tasting, very clear and the consistancy goes from a little thicker than water to very thick and milky, depending on if she is ovualting. Ovulation will make a girls natural secreations a little thicker. If it has a bad odor, thats not normal. Could be an infection. Link to comment
BPshorty Posted July 19, 2011 Share Posted July 19, 2011 ahahha that your right, we do have to be careful. I recommend eating fruits with alot of sugar watermelon, honeydew, MANGOES!, kiwi, pineapple and so on. That should defintley help with the taste of it, if that doesnt help I know a girlfriend of mine she takes some chewable tablets and vitamins so her juice is flavoured (strawberry, watermelon, or even just sweeter) if your really concerned that is... Link to comment
delicous Posted July 19, 2011 Author Share Posted July 19, 2011 Bp shorty, what does she take, can you find out for me please? lol and yes... yes...I need to eat more fruits sor sure...I don't think its an infection, I hope not at least...Lasttime my man went down there he told me I have no smell or taste, I would LOVE to taste like strawberries though if there is a way to do so, Im all on board=) Link to comment
delicous Posted July 19, 2011 Author Share Posted July 19, 2011 I looked what u were talking about up, there is no such thing...It just says to eat lots of fruits and veggies, thats it..lol But I think what u are talking about isn't designed to make ur flavors taste better or smell any better, I think what u are talking about is a fruit pill lol? They are not proven to make a difference as far as smell and taste. There are adult fruit vitamens but I would think since its a vitamen its very potent and may do the opposite...Anybody know what Bp is talking about, Id love to know lol... Link to comment
delicous Posted July 21, 2011 Author Share Posted July 21, 2011 I didnt figure out the "chewable fruit tablets" but I did drink water all day yesterday---And I didnt smell when I squirted with my bf =) Link to comment
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