Curious

[huntereyes]

My ex and i broke up one month ago, we were dating for 4 months.

He explained it was because i became friends with this guy who still had feelings for me. Now he seems to be talking to me every day and texting me throughout the day....we hung out the other day and it was just as friends and i felt that chemistry we had when we were dating....i believe he also felt it but who knows. Now my ex is huge on wanting to be friends with someone before dating them...we didnt do this. We went straight to the punch line and dated. So now I dont know if i'm being stupid thinking this...but i have a hunch he wants to start slow off with friends now and build into something again after he can trust me again? Am i stupid for thinking this? He texts me in the middle of the night reminding me of the awesome things we did together, yesterday he texted me while he was out and said "im here with your lab coast boyfriend" (this is the guy that was hitting on me in front of him when we just broke up and he was upset about it)

[SapphireNoir10]

He needs to make his mind up. Its obviously confusing him. Why dont you ask him what hes up too?

[huntereyes]

we had a talk the day he got back and he discussed how he still had feelings for me...and so on...and like a week ago he was texting me all this cute stuff about how he misses the facial expressions i used to do. I think he's just letting it work out on its own...like if it ends up with us dating it does, and if it doesnt it doesnt? Does that make sense? I was just curious as to what you guys thought of him speaking to me so much....or maybe i'm being friend zoned?

[Dlar]

You need to find out if it could lead to anything else or not.

 

Imagine how you would feel if you think that becoming friends could lead to something else, but he only see's you as a friend, nothing else and end up with someone else?

During this time you will have shrugged other lads off and pretty much wasted time hoping something will happen with the other guy.

[huntereyes]

but..im not shrugging anyone off. I know i still have feelings for him and vice versa, neither of us are wanting to date anyone right now...as we've discussed this. He gets extremely jealous when guys hit on me and i dont even notice it because i dont care for other guys...or guys in general. I kind of just enjoy my life as it is...as in maybe we will date maybe we wont. if it works out on its own thats awesome, but im not going to put pressure on him at least not yet. I'm fine with how it is now, im just a little curious as to what this is all supposed to mean....and clearly it means hes confused :S