Tired!!

[Covergirl9]

Im so proud to be the mother of a beautiful healthy baby boy he is truly a blessing. He was born May 4th and if you have read my previous post you would know that I was having problems from my child's father. That man has taken me through any and everything he did everything to me but kill me. I went through my pregnancy without him he was nowhere to be found because he didn't want to be involved he didn't believe this was his child which he had no reason to think so. We didn't talk at all, he wasn't there for his birth nor did I hear from him during that time. My son is 2 months and he hasn't seen him at all, Ive sent him pics but he gives no reactions. I'm doing everything on my own working, going to school, and raising my son which he works and want even help me. Last week he accepted that this was his son and apologized to me for everything he did to me and wanted to raise our son together. He was saying he loves us and he wanted us to work on being a family. He wanted me to come to his house with the baby which he he stays over an hour away because he has no car and when I found out I couldnt come he went back to acting crazy again and said he don't like the way I make him feel. Now we fussing and he tells me he doing the best he can but he not about to stop doing what he doing and that I can put him on childvsupport he doesn't care and started laughing. He ran game on me once again and hurt me.

[chitown9]

The father of your baby boy is not consistent as to what he wants. He doesn't want to be involved, the he does, then he doesn't He seems to be unstable and I would discount him as a father who is going to step up to the plate and accept responsibility for his son. Don't let him get away without paying child support. Just take yourself quietly to an attorney and proceed a suit to get child support from him. Don't tell him what you are doing. Just do it. He won't be laughing anymore. I wish you happiness with your new son...........chi

[1m50L0nl3y]

Hmm I see some internal conflict inside of him. He knows whats the right thing to do but lacks maturity to just do it. Maybe he will grow up and become part of the babys life. But that has anything to do with you 2 as a couple, i dont think you should try to work a relationship with him. Dont waste your energy. Put him on child support, and let him know that the door is open for him to meet the baby and be part of his life, as is not the babys fault that his dad is a jerk. Its on your best interest to find another man with his feet on the ground. I wouldnt move in with him as he seems to be a little too much on the lunatic side of life, and his symptoms could evolve with day to day interactions.

[Snuggly]

Get the child support - you are going to need it. Your child deserves at least that. As to him, he is going to have to try a hell of a lot harder to make up for his failure to support you. Hold your head high girl, either he comes up to the mark or he misses out on the best experience of his life