help me

[lllll]

me and this girl use to be really good friend and Id go and meet her a few times a week and thigns are usually good i make her laugh and everything well i did it generally seemed to be ok butthis mornign after such a long time of us being close she just turned roudn and said im not ready for a relasionship i think it happen because i told her i loved her

what do i do i love her and shes just done this its not the first time shes done this its been going on for a while i was on holiday when she told me she missed me and that was the start of us being close again but now its gone again

[Quinnelle]

Did she tell you she loved you back?

I think the best thing would be to sit down together and talk about what you want to do. If you want to be in a relationship with her, you need to let her know, be clear about what you want to happen between you two. She sounds like a lovely girl, just ask her how she feels about you. If she loves you back, than that's great. She may not be ready for a relationship, but you can tell her you will take it slow, or simply give her the time and space she needs. If she doesn't love you romantically, you have to accept that and stay friends with her.

 

All the best, x