luvsomeone333 Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 so i went out with this guy on my team that i play sport with. He is such a flirt... so anyways we ve been talking for a while, first time we went out to the cinemas cause he had to make it up for my b day then we went out bowling, which was quite nice. so from there it was just purely friendship...well then he keeps going on about us dating and all..and so we give it ago and we went on a date, i thought the night really nice and cute...we kissed and all...and i thought it went flawlesssly and then the next day he texted me saying his not sure that he wants to date me. He tells me his been single for so long and the age difference scares him...its only 6 years gap...i dont see the problem.. i told him give it a shot but he left me hanging with no answer... so i ended...i got really annoyed cause he could have the courage to say something if he didnt want to... anyways time goes by and he continues to flirt with me...well we were back to being "normal" friends....but i still have a major crush on him i dont know whats wrong with me...why cant i stop thinking about him... i hate the fact he mislead me this the first time i actually started to date somebody... after my ex... Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 I know what you are feeling. Unfortunately, he's made it clear he doesn't want a relationship so you have to respect that and move on from him. Try to keep yourself busy and go out and meet new people! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted July 13, 2011 Share Posted July 13, 2011 How did he mislead you? He did have th ecourage to tell you it wouldn't work out. Didn't he say he's been single for so long that the age gap is an issue? Link to comment
luvsomeone333 Posted July 13, 2011 Author Share Posted July 13, 2011 He was misleading in the fact that his dog excuse was age difference ...he knew what he was getting himself into ...He said it so vaguely... I had to interpreted in that way...I suppose I have to move on ...its very hard to when he keeps pulling me back in ...I hate getting played Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted July 14, 2011 Share Posted July 14, 2011 I would tell him clearly that his flirting is confusing you and making you think he's attracted to you and wants a relationship. That'll stop him. Link to comment
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