How long to wait?

[jsw]

How long do you wait to become official? We talked about 6 weeks in and both said that we liked each other a lot and aren't looking for anyone else, but she said she didnt want to rush into anything really serious. We each were in long term relationships where we were dumped.

 

All situations are different, but how long do you usually wait? (its been 6 months since my last relationship, almost 4 for her) AND Do i bring it up again or wait for her to say something?

[DN]

How long since the 6 week talk?

[jsw]

2 weeks and 2 days

[DN]

I would leave it another month but in the meantime don't press things at all - if anything withdraw a little.

[Day_Walker]

I think that you should be more patient, it appears that you want to jump the gun here just keep in mind that she may not be as into the situation as you since she is delaying.