Should I or Should I not?

[MrEnigma]

The situation is, a friend of a friend said his work is hiring. I'm in need of a job immensely right now and the main issue is, my ex works there. Ironically when we were still together she was considering to quit, but I talked some sense into her. The friend of a friend told me they would definatly hire me because of my work experince and my availibilty. He is also a manager and said he can easily help me out by using him as an reference and pulling some strings. I mentioned that my ex worked there but he kind of didn't pay attention to it.

 

I'm trying to maintain NC and heal because the wound still oozes. She also has this anti-me phase and labeled me to her co-workers, that I stalk her. I don't want to feed into that claim and just get hurt more and more. What do you think? Go for it, screw her, get the job, and some more pain. Or go the other route by trying for a differnet job and avoiding a possible * * * * storm?

[catfeeder]

You need a job, you've been offered a job. The ex is interesting but not relevant.

[allsunny]

If it's going to affect your experience at the job, don't take it. But, if you're willing to put up with it and you can handle any drama or stress that comes with working with an "angry" ex, then go for it. It's about your experience... not hers.