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so basically this all started in February

i met this amazing girl, she was the my perfect girl i have ever met

she was smart, funny, come from a good home italian back ground (my family will love that) she was sexy. shes just my ideal girl.


so basically we hit it off and we saw each other for about a month and a half and then she called it off, because she didn't want a bf at the time. she was the first girl that has ever fully got my attention, like i full on fell for this girl.


it is now july. since her i have been with other girls but i always seem to find my self comparing the new girls to the girl i fell for, and no one has matched up so far. so i end up ending what ever i had with the new girls.


i still really like this girl, we have hung out a handful of times since the middle of march and we talk on face book and txt messages once a week maybe once every 2 weeks at the latest. i do night shift so sometimes she MSG's me at like 10pm and asks me if Imo working to hang out.


the first time we hung out since she dumped me was may so like 2 months after and i thought maybe i could try and make a move and see where things stand. so i said do you wanna watch a movie she said yes i asked her does she want to watch a movie in my bedroom in the living room. i am aware of how that jsut sounded smooth as right? but nah when we were seeing eachtother basically we would always watch movies in my room on my bed and that would always lead to hooking up or what ever. anyways she gave me a look as if to say i thought i made it clear we were just friends. so i laughed it off and said i was joking


this brings me to 2 nights ago she had a dvd that belonged to me so i msged her saying


what are u doing come over im bored and can u bring that movie?

she replied yeah cool do u want me to drop it off or do u want to hang out?

i say nah hang out can u bring some movies for me to watch at work

she says only if you get pizza

i write deal


so she comes over we talk just like alway and get along and stuff. in side i was like i want you sooo ******* badd

and then we talk about friends and stuff and shes talking about her guy friends and she sort have mad me thing that she was hooking up with other guys and stuff and yeah we just had a good night and talked and stuff i didn't no weather or not to make a move or not because i didn't feel that she was throwing any signs at me but i have always been very useless are reading signs loll


anyways sorry about the lengthy question i just wanted to give u the full story before u give me advice basically what i want to no is


1. should i just give up on this girl

2. i still like her and stuff but i would rather keep her in my life as a friend then not at all if i approached her about us again i cant see us being friends

3. how do i get over this girl

4. do you think shes still into me

5 what do u think i should do



sorry about spelling and grammer im in a massive rush this whole situation is doig my head in

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1. That's something you have to decide... Do you want to just give up without at least trying?

2. Do you really want to be friends? No you don't. You want more. Can you really accept been friends, when she finds someone else what will you do then?

3. Time and no contact if you really want to ger over her. By talking to her all the time, meeting up you won't get over her. Or if you are strong enough, just accept nothing is going to happen and meet someone else, and stop comparing them to her!

4. Ask her... That's all you can do. But she seems to enjoy hanging out with you, so why not?

5. I'd have a word with her, just ask her if there could be more with you two, or if it's simply just friendship.

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