Should I ask him?

[yelwed]

I met this guy off line for the first time the other night. Prior to that we we would message each other, chat every night. We had a lot in common, he was really keen to meet.

 

When we met the other night he told me nice things and there was lots if kissing then he asked for sex but I told him prior to meeting that i don't do that sort of thing when I first meet someone.

 

Since then I haven't heard from him. When i got home I said to him that you don't seem interested as he was very stand offish towards the end of the night. He said he was keen but havent heard from him since.

 

What do I do now. Do I wait from him to contact me if he does or can I contact him and ask if he is interested?

[guynextdoor]

He's interested in only sex and you rejected him. I'm not sure why would you want to contact him again unless you changed your mind and want something casual..

[Java731]

It's pretty obvious that he met you thinking he could get some. But since he didn't, he doesn't want any business with you.

If you're looking for a guy to date, then gradually progress to relationship, or even something more than that, then he's not it.

He probably has a different motive than you.

I suggest you don't contact him, nor wait for him to contact you.

Even if he was to contact you, I highly doubt it's anything but to get into your pants.

[yelwed]

Maybe he is embarrassed after asking me other night, all these thoughts are going through my head. I just want to ask him if he us interested or not or ask him coz I didnt give him sex the other night, are you no longer interested?

[blackhawks1287]

If he wanted to see you he would, or at least he would send some signal mixed or not.

 

I am in a situation where I have been dating this girl for about a week and a half and we slept together over the weekend and then she became distant...actually after today if I don't hear back from her I probably won't initiate another thing, since I have been doing the work the whole time. She has been distant and sending mixed signals...and I am tired of it. I am not saying she used me for sex, but if we went there...we went the distance...what is there left to play ya know?

 

All I can say is...that when a guy is interested he will let you know in some form. If it makes you feel better to do so...then go for it. But personally I would not send anything and find someone else. Was this guy that great in the sense of compatibility?

[HeartGoesOn]

Maybe he is embarrassed after asking me other night, all these thoughts are going through my head. I just want to ask him if he us interested or not or ask him coz I didnt give him sex the other night, are you no longer interested?

 

The answer lies in his silence.

 

Personally, I think you dodged a bullet.

[mouseno4]

If you want sex then call him. If you don't then ignore him. Simple.

[Stay_home]

He was looking for a quick hit.