fiance suddenly seems unhappy

[merce79]

Long story short..my boyfriend of 3 yrs and I just had our first baby..a girl. I have 3 boys from a previous marriage. He's great with my kids and everything seemed fine b4 our baby was born. He seems so stressed out but can't explain why. He's always been a moody kind of guy but he's making me feel like my boys and I r a burden and I feel he dosent want 2 b with me anymore. The worst part is he makes me feel so special one minute and the next like I need 2 move out. I know people go thru stress with new babys but I almost wana leave and take a break. I'm so confused as 2 y the sudden change. By the way he's totally in luv with our baby dosent seem stressed by her also she's been an awesome baby. Any ideas as 2 y this is happening? Thnx

[abitbroken]

Having a new baby is stressful for some folks - they don't realize what the sleepness nights, and change in social life will do. And your sex life has changed or at least his view of you. Even if he doesn't appear stressed out by the baby, it may be the whole experience in general.

[charity]

have you communicated this to him?