msjen Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 My fiance and I have discussed about having a threesome in the past with another girl. I said I don't mind and that it would be something different to try. We kind of joked about it but never had a full on conversation about it. Lately, I've been having the urge to have the threesome. Since he's my first and only I think this would be a great idea to have a one night stand with a third person. I am curious to feel another hot sexay girl caressing me, licking my p*****, and giving a lap dance/show to me and my fiance. Have any of u couples tried this? I think it would be awesome. mMmmmm... oh yea Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 Girls want this kind of thing? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 Is this to be a one time deal? What if he wants to do this more than once? Link to comment
ferna3069 Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 this kind of thing can ether make u guys stronger or as i heard in many occasions destroy the relationship. im not saying its bad because it can spice up your relation but there is alot of stories where the relationship ends because one does not like it at the end just be carefull and make sure you both are open to it Link to comment
msjen Posted July 7, 2011 Author Share Posted July 7, 2011 @mouseno4: I am pretty sure cus i do. hehe. @metrogirl: yeah a one time deal with a girl that we have no connection with. He doesn't seem like the type to. We talked about it before. I was the one that brought it up first. I would be down if its someone that we both don't know. But i think it would be a great fantasy fullfillment! Link to comment
BPshorty Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 Yes girls want this stuff...if guys do, then why wouldnt we? Only fear is that the guy would want more than just a one night stand... No mutual friends, just a good ole stranger is the best More girls are into it than you think Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 Well you are the first girl I have heard who wants something like this. Usually it's the guys idea and the guys fantasy. Girls fantasies usually involve just lesbian action. (common for girls) Link to comment
msjen Posted July 7, 2011 Author Share Posted July 7, 2011 @ BPshorty: agree! Have u had a threesome before? Link to comment
chitown9 Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 This all sounds like opening a can of worms to me.:sad: Link to comment
im_the_undead Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 i'd just have sex with a girl. forget the fiance. haha well just be careful, don't get jealous! that might ruin the fun. personally, i'd have a threesome myself.... but maybe not with my fiance. maybe with someone i wasn't so attached to emotionally, just to be safe! i think it'd be more fun as well. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 Usually the men are so enthralled with the whole thing that it rarely stops at one threesome. You may think he is only going to want to do it one time but I am willing to bet he is going to want it again and again. Link to comment
lastcall23 Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 I had a threesome once with my best friend and the guy she was seeing. We all got drunk and it really just ended up happening but her and I always said if we ever were to have a threesome, it would be with each other. Her and the guy are still together two years later and there is no weirdness between the three of us. I have no attraction to her man beyond a friendship and it was a one time deal for us, we all go it out of our systems and none of us regret it. We actually still talk about it once in a while and laugh at ourselves but it was fun and a great sexual experience for all of us. Really, you both just need to be open-minded to it and don't let it affect your relationship outside of that night. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Usually the men are so enthralled with the whole thing that it rarely stops at one threesome. You may think he is only going to want to do it one time but I am willing to bet he is going to want it again and again. Guess what. I am male. And what's more, is that I do not desire threesomes. As in at all. Thanks. We are not all cut from the same sheet. Link to comment
Perrin83 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Guess what. I am male. And what's more, is that I do not desire threesomes. As in at all. Thanks. We are not all cut from the same sheet. I'm pretty sure metrogirl said usually. As in not all the time. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 I'm pretty sure metrogirl said usually. As in not all the time. Hate it when people use blanket style words like that. Be specific and to the point. Link to comment
BPshorty Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 ahha yes I have msjen You gotta trust your partner not to take that step and further communicate (such as phone number, email, etc) It's just an emotional thing for alot of people to go over....if your thinking of a 3 some..try 4... plenty of sharing going around Link to comment
Sweetkisses22 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Um I think every girl has thought about it but here's why it'd not a good idea. What if he starts pleasurering her more than you and being all over HER more than you since he's used to you and has never had her before? It would be kind of like he is cheating on you infront of you cause you said its play. Be prepared for that. And be prepared for him to want it to happen again. Rarely will a guy say he is okay with it once. He will expect it more. Also be prepared that she may pleasure him better than you. There is a lot of things that will trigger jealousy here. I thinkbits a bad idea. If you want to do this I suggest you do it with people your not serious about. Link to comment
Sweetkisses22 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Usually the men are so enthralled with the whole thing that it rarely stops at one threesome. You may think he is only going to want to do it one time but I am willing to bet he is going to want it again and again. Yup! And if he's never had one before he's going to enjoy it and want it more and more. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Do it if you're willing to accept the risk of being far more jealous and disturbed/anxious than you ever thought possible and accept the risk of losing the relationship you have (which of course doesn't come with a 100% guarantee- far from it -but this type of behavior is extremely risky IMO). If you feel fine about it I don't think that makes you more openminded or closer with your partner -it might simply be because your priority is the thrill of being with another person and perhaps you're not the type to feel jealous about sharing your partner. From my perspective even if I was tempted I would never play with fire in that way - perhaps I recognize more than you do how very difficult it is to find a good match and long term partner. Link to comment
Perrin83 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Hate it when people use blanket style words like that. Be specific and to the point. mouseno4, Sometimes generalizations save a lot of time. Would it make sense for someone to list out every example of their experiences if the outcome was always the same? Or would it make more sense to say, "I've done X a lot, and Y always happens."? Link to comment
Miss Kitty Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 Girls want this kind of thing? Yes. My boyfriend and I are looking for someone to have a threesome with. He brought it up, but I am excited. I'm bisexual, so that helps too. We seem to have the same taste in women. It's so much fun because I'll be like, "She was really hot." and he'll say, "Yeah, I gotta be honest, I was checkin her out." I'll laugh and tell him I was too and then we both turn all red and wonder if she could be the one. Link to comment
Miss Kitty Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 A good idea that I read online is that you set boundries ahead of time. I've already told my man that when we do find the right girl, he'd better pay a lot more attention to me than her. Also, you can set rules as to what he can and cannot do with her. The idea of my boyfriend actually having sex with another woman makes me crazy, so he can touch her, but penetration will only be allowed with me. Remember too, that most guys are thrilled to have a girl that's even willing to do a threesome, so you hold all the cards, you can make the rules. That way you feel more comfortable. Also, with the total stranger thing, I would be worried about stds. My bf and I are considering two girls. One we are working on getting to know enough that we'd feel ok with it, but she's someone that we'd never have to see again if we don't want to. The other girl is a mutual friend but she's in a very committed relationship so I know that she's not going to run off with my man. She has a man that she's in love with. Find someone that you can trust. Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 Guess I'm one of the rare ones here...my boyfriend is more than happy to participate in a threesome with me and another guy. I have no interest in a threesome with another female, so I'm quite glad he's not, either. Link to comment
Miss Kitty Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 Guess I'm one of the rare ones here...my boyfriend is more than happy to participate in a threesome with me and another guy. I have no interest in a threesome with another female, so I'm quite glad he's not, either. Mine was adamant that he won't do a threesome with another guy. Too bad, because I know someone I'd like to have sex with that wants me too. But then again, my bf is straight and I'm bisexual, so it's different for him to have someone of the same gender than it is for me. As for me, I am so excited to have a threesome with another girl (nervous too though). I am just wondering how to choose the right girl. To add even more kink to that chain, one we are considering is my boss! Link to comment
tmtex Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 I did it with another guy, meanin 2 guys on 1 girl. (picked her up at a bar)(no guy on guy thing) We were laughing the the whole time and high 5ing. Oh it was a great night. It was so fun, we started to do it more. At a local bar/club, I would just go up to the drunkest female in there and ask, Hey wanna have sex with 2 guys? That worked 2 more times. Again Just laughing the whole time were doing it. Then there was the best day of my life. I was at this same bar and a girl came to me and asked me that. Hell I am even short. 1 was super hot the other not bad but hell yea!! It was great. God Loved me that year LOL. Never worked/happened again. Link to comment
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