cheating :/

[ccantu]

i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for a couple of weeks. before we started talking/dating i was messing around with this other guy. the other guy and i were never dating we were just friends with benefits. the other guy been messing with each other since spring break. we were each others "first." well now that im with my boyfriend i really dont talk the other guy ,but the other day the other guy wanted to hang out so i decided to because he wouldnt stop bugging me about it. well basically we got messed up and i ended up cheating on my boyfriend with my friend with benefits. i regret it so much because for one i have a boyfriend and second my boyfriend is such a sweetheart. i feel that i should break up with him because i feel that he can do so much better but then i dont want to lose him. what should i do?

[Yaz]

Fess up and let him go.

[mouseno4]

You cheated so you will have to pay the price. There is no good outcome. He deserves to be with someone better. Someone who will be faithful to him. Something you are clearly not. The question here is whether you want to do the right or the wrong thing. Lie to him to try to keep something you don't deserve or fess up and face the music and let him see your true colours.

[Kishiko]

I'm sorry sweetie, but since you cheated you have to confess to your boyfriend that you messed up. You can try

begging him to forgive you, but if that doesn't work then you should just break up with him since it sounds like your

not ready for a serious relationship.

[waytoodown]

You have to onfess and let him go.

 

Don't try to continue this relationship and keep this a seret, because in the end, secrets come out (I'm speaking from experience, my bf did something bad a few times and thought he could keep it from me, but I found out recently and now have to break up over it! ....I would much rather he had told me at the time, it would have been much less hurtful!)

 

Good luck!

[Snowy]

Confess and say you're sorry.

 

The rest is up to him. He may or may not dump you.

[wicked6018]

you need to tell him the truth. honestly, i think cheating is the lowest thing you can do to a person, and you don't deserve him.

[Dracia]

Better he hears it from you than your friend with benefits.