Hi

[Lucynew]

Hi

I've found out last week, that my partner had been in conversation with his ex, apparently she had turned to him (for support) and she wanted to clarify why he had left her. Apparently he answered back truthfully and then was concerned, worried about her, that he had been to blunt especially after she originally had contacted him after his father (that he never met) had died originally and months before...... he then emailed her offering to meet her few days before I was going away to see my family. He was organizing the meet up for when I was away, driving up to her. She didn't replied until few weeks later, apparently she was away herself, telling him that everything was fine and wishing him all the best...... he then wrote something that was apparently never sent to her, saying that she was had been the only one to him, he wasn't happy and to know that she was in a happy relationship (but still contacted him in the first place) hurt him but also made him happy as to summarize.....

 

Apparently all this was wrong and non sense and he had just replied and then worried about her and our own issues was part of the big picture of why he had (wrongly) acted in this way.

 

I still think that he was, is, not over her and that is truly why all this happened to the point where he tried to meet her behind my back when I was away.....

[DN]

saying that she was had been the only one to him, he wasn't happy and to know that she was in a happy relationship (but still contacted him in the first place) hurt him but also made him happy as to summarize.....

In your place I would leave him.

[Eocsor]

I'd be careful, you may well be his rebound relationship.

[catfeeder]

How long after the breakup with his ex did you start dating him?